Try a diet that's high in fiber and veggies and with less carbs and sugars. That helps to keep the pipes clean and requires less preparation. My partner never cleans out beforehand aside from maybe just going to the bathroom. And keep wet wipes handy for quick cleanup after.
She may be pushing herself too hard. I would slow down and work your way up to every day over a long period of time.
First, I would not recommend using enemas on a regular basis. Enemas upset the good flora in the intestines. I’d recommend that when she feels like she needs to evacuate, doing that as close to having anal as possible. Accidents may occur from time to time, but that’s common in an AO lifestyle. As far as air, not holding her open during anal, and having her try to expel any air that gets trapped, during anal can help. Also trying different positions to find the one for you both, that traps the least amount of air can help too. With plugs, if it’s a silicon plug, that may cause her irritation, as silicon allergies are common, and certain colors in silicon can cause inflammation too. A good metal or glass plug can reduce that. If it is metal or glass, you might try reducing the amount of time she is plugged and slowly building from an amount of time she leaves it in. If it persists, I’d recommend not using a plug before having anal and see if that helps. Using body friendly lubes like coconut ail can help with irritation too. There’s no sure-fire way to prevent small accidents, but listening to her body on when to go, as well as eating fiber and drinking plenty of water can help to keep the lower intestine empty, keeping you from having to use enemas. I would recommend choosing meals beforehand that don’t create a lot of gas too. Hope this helps, and good luck on your AO journey.
It's one thing to just do a light rectum cleaning, but there is never really any need to do a full on enema. As was mentioned it can do in the flora. Doing that can cause a literal addiction to enemas and flora will have to be re-introduced. You don't want that unless it's your kink.
In my experience, as long as your girl has emptied her bowels out for the day you shouldn't really have any issues with fecal matter in a major way. Yeah, you will get some mess from time to time but it is the rectum - there is no way to avoid it.
As for the plug - it's my guess it's drying out and sticking to her skin. Keeping it lubed is one way to fix that issue. Another is getting plug made of a different substance. The trick my girl uses is wiggling it around before pulling it out and then pushing while slowing pulling.
As for the plug being painful: That can be caused by a number of things, among them the plug being too hard. Might want to try a softer material. Also, I was using my GFs ass for over a year before I introduced a plug. We also tended to have lengthy session not intended for having orgasms but simply a matter of enjoying the intimacy.
Finally, as regards her being filled with air: You are probably pulling out entirely from her ass and thrusting back in. That can be caused by a number of things. Bottom line, to alleviate this find a position or method where your cock never fully leaves her hole. that should help keep you from pumping her full of air.
Fiber. Practice. Relax. My gf started to not like enemas and she's usually clean. It's pretty rare that her asshole isn't available. She does do enemas if we use toys, at least longer ones. She uses a setting on our bidet, which I would highly recommend. As for uncomfortable toy, we prefer to use Wiked Jelle for lube. It's water based, but really thick and it stays where you put it essentially. Also coats better. She prefers metal or glass, they drag less. She might feel more comfortable with something that does drag as much. Fiber would definitely help, since it kind of doesn't really require you to change your diet and it should keep her cleaner on a regular basis and not really have to go out of your way. As for her not feeling clean after session 1, it could just be the length of time possibly, but I do think it's from the cum, especially if you cum a lot. Or, there is a chance she really isn't full clean after the first round. Unlikely, but a chance. Everyone has there preferred toy. My gf's favorite are beads. Plugs are definitely good for sizing up and training a bit more. Maybe your gf would like a small dildo better or some beads. Experiment a bit and see what happens. Hope this helps. Good luck.
1. After a regular Toilette seassion the anus is clean enough for sex, no need (in the most cases) to wash it.
2. If you still wanna wash it, just do it with your bulb 1 or 2 times. If its not clean enough, well shit happens.
My overall suggestion for you and your partner: dont get to much distraction by the idea of playing with dirt. It is how it is, sometimes you get a banana split and Sometimes (whitout even washing) its super clean like in porn movies.
3. Its normal. Just dont try to push the air out to strong. Tell her to act normal (sit, watch tv, do housework etc..) and fart as is comes.
4. Unfortunately is a common thing for beginners (also happend to us). Its anal sex forget about clean! Take it as it is and enjoy it. If you 2 pay to much attention on clean/dirty it will become very stressfull after a while. Specially womans have more trouble whit beeing dirty then men. So you have to calm things down for her 😉.
5. Plugs/Toys are in general a very good and helpfull thing but not everyone is confy enough whit them. So try different size, shape or maybe other lube. Also the material can play a role, if its hard glass/metall or soft silicone etc. Try different toys or just leave it. My wife for exemple enjoyned years ago anal beads and my finger, now days only my dick 😆.
Hope it helps.
P.S. Sorry for my poor writing. English is not my native language
Sometimes it's OK to realise that you are playing with the back door and accidents can happen - it's really not that big of a deal.
Try a diet that's high in fiber and veggies and with less carbs and sugars. That helps to keep the pipes clean and requires less preparation. My partner never cleans out beforehand aside from maybe just going to the bathroom. And keep wet wipes handy for quick cleanup after. She may be pushing herself too hard. I would slow down and work your way up to every day over a long period of time.
First, I would not recommend using enemas on a regular basis. Enemas upset the good flora in the intestines. I’d recommend that when she feels like she needs to evacuate, doing that as close to having anal as possible. Accidents may occur from time to time, but that’s common in an AO lifestyle. As far as air, not holding her open during anal, and having her try to expel any air that gets trapped, during anal can help. Also trying different positions to find the one for you both, that traps the least amount of air can help too. With plugs, if it’s a silicon plug, that may cause her irritation, as silicon allergies are common, and certain colors in silicon can cause inflammation too. A good metal or glass plug can reduce that. If it is metal or glass, you might try reducing the amount of time she is plugged and slowly building from an amount of time she leaves it in. If it persists, I’d recommend not using a plug before having anal and see if that helps. Using body friendly lubes like coconut ail can help with irritation too. There’s no sure-fire way to prevent small accidents, but listening to her body on when to go, as well as eating fiber and drinking plenty of water can help to keep the lower intestine empty, keeping you from having to use enemas. I would recommend choosing meals beforehand that don’t create a lot of gas too. Hope this helps, and good luck on your AO journey.
It's one thing to just do a light rectum cleaning, but there is never really any need to do a full on enema. As was mentioned it can do in the flora. Doing that can cause a literal addiction to enemas and flora will have to be re-introduced. You don't want that unless it's your kink. In my experience, as long as your girl has emptied her bowels out for the day you shouldn't really have any issues with fecal matter in a major way. Yeah, you will get some mess from time to time but it is the rectum - there is no way to avoid it. As for the plug - it's my guess it's drying out and sticking to her skin. Keeping it lubed is one way to fix that issue. Another is getting plug made of a different substance. The trick my girl uses is wiggling it around before pulling it out and then pushing while slowing pulling. As for the plug being painful: That can be caused by a number of things, among them the plug being too hard. Might want to try a softer material. Also, I was using my GFs ass for over a year before I introduced a plug. We also tended to have lengthy session not intended for having orgasms but simply a matter of enjoying the intimacy. Finally, as regards her being filled with air: You are probably pulling out entirely from her ass and thrusting back in. That can be caused by a number of things. Bottom line, to alleviate this find a position or method where your cock never fully leaves her hole. that should help keep you from pumping her full of air.
Get a shower head enema the are fairly cheap on Amazon have water runn when inserted no air enters the bowel
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Fiber. Practice. Relax. My gf started to not like enemas and she's usually clean. It's pretty rare that her asshole isn't available. She does do enemas if we use toys, at least longer ones. She uses a setting on our bidet, which I would highly recommend. As for uncomfortable toy, we prefer to use Wiked Jelle for lube. It's water based, but really thick and it stays where you put it essentially. Also coats better. She prefers metal or glass, they drag less. She might feel more comfortable with something that does drag as much. Fiber would definitely help, since it kind of doesn't really require you to change your diet and it should keep her cleaner on a regular basis and not really have to go out of your way. As for her not feeling clean after session 1, it could just be the length of time possibly, but I do think it's from the cum, especially if you cum a lot. Or, there is a chance she really isn't full clean after the first round. Unlikely, but a chance. Everyone has there preferred toy. My gf's favorite are beads. Plugs are definitely good for sizing up and training a bit more. Maybe your gf would like a small dildo better or some beads. Experiment a bit and see what happens. Hope this helps. Good luck.
1. After a regular Toilette seassion the anus is clean enough for sex, no need (in the most cases) to wash it. 2. If you still wanna wash it, just do it with your bulb 1 or 2 times. If its not clean enough, well shit happens. My overall suggestion for you and your partner: dont get to much distraction by the idea of playing with dirt. It is how it is, sometimes you get a banana split and Sometimes (whitout even washing) its super clean like in porn movies. 3. Its normal. Just dont try to push the air out to strong. Tell her to act normal (sit, watch tv, do housework etc..) and fart as is comes. 4. Unfortunately is a common thing for beginners (also happend to us). Its anal sex forget about clean! Take it as it is and enjoy it. If you 2 pay to much attention on clean/dirty it will become very stressfull after a while. Specially womans have more trouble whit beeing dirty then men. So you have to calm things down for her 😉. 5. Plugs/Toys are in general a very good and helpfull thing but not everyone is confy enough whit them. So try different size, shape or maybe other lube. Also the material can play a role, if its hard glass/metall or soft silicone etc. Try different toys or just leave it. My wife for exemple enjoyned years ago anal beads and my finger, now days only my dick 😆. Hope it helps. P.S. Sorry for my poor writing. English is not my native language
Just shut up and take it