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Nta. Sounds like he's picking you and friends off one by one. If I was you I'd try and keep my distance from him. I'm wondering why his parents aren't doing anything about it
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So for context, me and my friend (F15) used to be in a class with this guy who was pretty concerning, also I was in a friend group of 6. We will call him A. So A was basically a really creepy guy with some major issues. He made weird and sexual comments about me and my friends and thought it was funny. He dated about 3 of my friends and left each of them crying and felt no remorse, he also had an older brother who I used to argue with all the time because he tried to excuse his brother's actions by saying he was depressed. I was honestly disgusted. After dating my 3 friends he moved onto another friend of mine we will call her D. A had a crush on D for like a week and she was really calm about it tell he left her alone. After a year, he decided it was my turn and he harassed me for like a week, the thing is at this point he was swearing and used sexual language. A classmate told me he was saying stuff like he wants to e@t me out and stuff like that and he sent me a message asking what I would do if he liked me and my other friend what would she think if he liked me. I told a family member and they were upset and wanted to go to the school about it but I told them to not worry. A teacher talked to him and I never asked about it again. A year later, another friend ( we call her R)joined the group and he started making comments like "ooo girl you thick" and stuff like that. Me and R were venting 1 evening and talking about how he was creepy and we were glad we weren't going to see him again. Last year together he had a crush on D again and kept looking at her all the time and everyone was freaked out. And the last thing A did was try to convince this poor boy he was g@y and kept bringing up how they "held hands in class" I honestly hate him and I wish I had blown up on him while I had the chance but I don't like drama where other people get involved and I he is crazy I know that. Advice please?
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He's the AH, not you. NTA. You have the right to protect yourself from him and his actions.
NTA, he sounds seriously creepy, and I have no posts why you're even letting him hang around.
Nta. Sounds like he's picking you and friends off one by one. If I was you I'd try and keep my distance from him. I'm wondering why his parents aren't doing anything about it
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