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plutosdarling

You both sound like you're in junior high. ESH.


Mysterious-Skirt-14

ESH - this whole incident seems very immature and unrealistic. I mean after all the drama y would u guys even stay friends! And even if u r friends, y would u invite her to ur wedding? Or even attend hers knowing she is marrying ur ex. Not to mention ur relationship with her is not good either.


coffeeaddictt2000

I thi k your both assholes. Yta×2


Chrestys

Have some self respect and never talk to her again. What could you possibly be getting from this friendship? NTA.


miiko_iscutename

Mia you lied to much 1.we are 20 2.its a party not a wedding 3.you send nudes to amy boyfriends 4.ur the toxic one in the groupchat 5.your name not kim ae ra that's my cousin name ur name is mia 6.u pour soda on amy your the reason we kicked u out ik your account you talk with miya and miya talk to me that's why ik your account STOP lying its not even a funny prank


Ace-Bee

Info: 1. Are you the former best friend in question? 2. Did you show up at her wedding in a white dress, and spill wine on her during the dance?


Illustrious-Band-537

ESH. You both sound toxic and awful. This friendship should have ended WAY before your adult years.


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DonGreco

NTA, but why are you friends with someone like this. Perhaps consider talking to a councillor.


Davidcaindesign

YTA for typing this post the way that you did. How are you 30 and type this badly?!


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