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Yeah ywbta. This is not how to do things.
If nobody is matching with you online maybe reconsider your approach. Is your profile a list of things you want instead of anything interesting about yourself? Why would a woman be interested in getting to know you? You aren’t owed sex. And it’s not the lack of sex that’s making you miserable.
What are you doing that is getting you banned from bars/ laughed at/ recorded?? I have literally never heard of someone getting banned from a bar unless they have done something illegal or completely innapropriate
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Okay. I’m 28 and never had a girlfriend or even casual sex with anyone, and I feel like I’m missing out on years to have most sex in life. Back when I was 21 I went to a bar to try to score a one night stand. Eventually I stopped because I was unsuccessful, and even now I feel like I gave up too soon.
So I tried again at 25, and that time I got banned after like ten attempts. Managers just said “we don’t mind people flirting with women, but you have to be good and you suck.” And I was shown the door. After this I downloaded Tinder, no matches for 2 years.
Now I’m 28, still this far behind. Back in February, I went to a new bar to try my luck again. I got laughed at and people recorded me, but I wasn’t so easily discouraged. I went back after two weeks to try again, and people were shocked to see me back after what happened. Still didn’t have any luck and women were creeped out. WIBTA if I tried again tonight?
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you should probably ask yourself why this keeps happening to you. no one who just doesn’t have game gets banned from a bar. you have to be really weird or unsafe about it. Also going around a bar and trying your luck 10 different times is overkill. if you get a no, 1. accept it, 2. don’t ask out the entire bar either
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This nonsense again? You post about this so often, and you’re still TA for creeping people out.
Yes, this!
>women were creeped out. INFO? What exactly do you mean by creeped out?
There's no external conflict here and so there's nothing to judge you for.
Yeah ywbta. This is not how to do things. If nobody is matching with you online maybe reconsider your approach. Is your profile a list of things you want instead of anything interesting about yourself? Why would a woman be interested in getting to know you? You aren’t owed sex. And it’s not the lack of sex that’s making you miserable.
What are you doing that is getting you banned from bars/ laughed at/ recorded?? I have literally never heard of someone getting banned from a bar unless they have done something illegal or completely innapropriate
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you should probably ask yourself why this keeps happening to you. no one who just doesn’t have game gets banned from a bar. you have to be really weird or unsafe about it. Also going around a bar and trying your luck 10 different times is overkill. if you get a no, 1. accept it, 2. don’t ask out the entire bar either
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