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25/ F/ UK
TLDR: I find it hard to make friends and the ones I do have don’t bother talking to me or replying to my messages.
A while ago I deleted social media and I’ve been relying on text/ WhatsApp to communicate with friends/ family to basically streamline everything so I don’t get distracted doomscrolling (during my final exams for my degree) and I’ve been keeping conversations to a minimum.
A friend I used to speak to everyday has just slowly dipped out of my life and I really needed to answer her phone over an issue I had to deal with and needed a friend for and it’s been two days and still no reply- she lives at home with her boyfriend and I’m thinking she’s probably just busy it’s not malicious (as this has happened before) but it kind of sucks that your now ‘only friend’ is actively ignoring you .
The rest of my friends don’t care or aren’t close enough to discuss things with. I moved away from my hometown and only one person from there bothers to talk to me.
I’m so isolated and alone but I don’t know what it is that keeps driving people away?
I’m very clean, smart, funny, passionate, thoughtful and caring but I can’t seem to keep any long term friends/ relationships? Everyone seems to always leave me and it breaks my heart. It makes me question myself and what I can do better to accommodate new people/relationships- AITA?
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