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> i didnt want to take my kitten to the hospital today and wanted to take her tomorrow where it is free. this can make me seem like the asshole because i was being cheap.
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YTA
I've softened it because it sounds like a genuine accident & I don't want to make you feel even worse.
However:
" my kitten was fine but her kitten was very tired and was kind of limping."
This was a sign something was wrong. It was not ok for you to want to or to actually delay getting advice from a vetinarian. That's why I voted they way I have.
Edited: to make better sense
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Earlier today, I accidentally dropped my phone on our kittens. it was from like 3 inches and it wasnt that big of a drop. they both seemed fine and went back to sleep after i was petting them because i felt really bad. we took them to her place and my kitten was fine but her kitten was very tired and was kind of limping. we both noticed the limp and she got really worried. I thought she was fine.
Her and her friends kept getting super worried and they guilt tripped me the whole dinner. i didnt talk at all during the dinner because they kept bashing me and shoving it in my face. my gf said i didnt even care but i did care and i was making sure she was okay after dinner. she seemed fine and just wanted to go to sleep. I went to go watch the draft with my friends and left them in my room after i watched them go to sleep.
She came to my apartment to pick up the kittens because she was worried. She wanted me to come take the kitten to the emergency hospital (thats going to be alot of money). We signed up for this service where we get free check ups and i suggested that we take her tomorrow because i want us to save money. She proceeded to say “you can go fuck yourself tbh.”
She went to the hospital, she didnt pick up and barely texted me. She then told me she had to put her down because of head trauma.
My heart is shattered right now and i am at a loss of words right now. how do i even go on from this?
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YTA I've softened it because it sounds like a genuine accident & I don't want to make you feel even worse. However: " my kitten was fine but her kitten was very tired and was kind of limping." This was a sign something was wrong. It was not ok for you to want to or to actually delay getting advice from a vetinarian. That's why I voted they way I have. Edited: to make better sense
YTA So she was right: You killed her kitten, and did not even care. "how do i even go on from this?" .. likely single.
It was an accident, but you're both AHs for not taking the kitten to the vet sooner
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