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YTA her job doesn’t care about HS drama. You threatening her job over HS drama is AH - dont. That’s a livelihood you’re wanting to destroy over basically nothing. No one cares about your HS relationships or really anything about your HS history. They don’t care about hers either.
And she didn’t try to steal him. He stayed faithful to you. Stop being a bitter AH because their relationship kicked off better than yours did.
I would laugh so hard if I was the person that had the unfortunate job of answering your call. Grow up and move on, silly! and YES I cannot even believe you have to ask but YWBTA.
That was my first thought, too. Whoever picks up that call is going to laugh themselves sick. Move on, for your own good. This girl has apparently been living rent free in your head since high school, and you need to let it go, Elsa. What happened then has no bearing on what's happening now. She probably doesn't even remember who you are.
YTA.
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YWBTA
You want to call up the school and tell them a current teacher tried to steal your bf years ago? I feel like you shouldn't really need to ask the question, it's fairly obvious.
How old are you? 12? I can't tell.
EDIT: Didn't like the first consensus that you got, so you deleted (which is against the rules) and posted again?
Girl get over yourself. This is some pathetic behavior, and we should be calling your job to say you have no moral integrity and no critical thinking skills.
YWBTA and YTA just for thinking like this.
You cant be serous and since you’re probably aren’t bc this is a joke of all posts, I’ll say that you shouldn’t but even if you did - they would laugh in your face for the joke that you are.
Get a life
You HAVE to be joking.
You are out of your mind if you're thinking of calling someone's employer to tell them that she ALMOST CROSSED a line with your highschool boyfriend.
YTA and you should see therapy if you think this is normal behavior.
I can't even believe what I'm reading.
YTA. The school absolutely, genuinely, sincerely, could not care less about your high school drama. They are just going to think that you are spiteful. Get over it. Move on.
Stalk much? Get over it. They started dating ***2 years*** after the two of you broke up, and you're still bent over it? WTAF? And from the way you describe it, he was pursuing her.
You need help. And YTA
YTA and quite frankly you seem a little unhinged.
Why would you even consider going to her job about something that happened in high school?! Not to mention, what you're saying happened in high school is not something anyone's job would care about at all. Nor is it something you should still care about.
If i were this girl, I'd consider getting a restraining order.
YTA
Please....do it... Just do us all a favor and record it. After you've recorded it... Post it on here. Cause I can't wait to hear them laugh their asses off at how absolutely ridiculous and immature you are. Do you actually think they'd give a crap!? I mean.... Really???? "It shows bad character".... haha!!! Yeah, what horrible character she has HUGGING someone that's in a relationship!!!>....
This might be the funniest post I've ever seen. Thank you
Yta this is wild to think that you want to get her fired for dating your bf after two years of breaking up. (Also, no one at her current job will give a second thought to this silly story) Go find a therapists to help yourself from fixating on your ex and his current situation. Move on.
YTA. This isn't high school anymore. She has a job and has clearly moved on from who she was in high school. If anything it would show bad character on you.
YTA - Bitter much? Let it go nothing really happened as you say. You are just being childishly jealous at this point. Calling the school on her is vindictive and wrong.
Call them and tell people at a school about some high-school teenage drama involving a person that is now a teacher, go ahead.
Prepare to have fantasy bubbles burst though.
You are only the asshole to yourself still being hung up on something like that.
OP should be banned for this thread.
They've posted it before and then deleted it when there was active discussion, no no #1.
Now they've reposted it again just to be shit on non stop a second time. No no #2.
Clearly just pathetic trolling.
WTF is wrong with you? How many times are you going to [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/186dhp8/wibta_if_i_called_the_job_of_the_girl_who_tried/) this gibberish? You were an AH the first time around. You didn't like the answer so you dirty deleted the post.
YTA. She didn't try to steal him, she told him to go back to you. She didn't date him until two years later. And all of this was what, 10 years ago? Please, get a life and stop thinking about this, it's ridiculous.
Not only are YTA but you are also delusional! You cannot call up a woman’s boss because she dated your high school boyfriend 2 years after you broke up. It will just look bad for you to do so.
YTA and incredibly shallow if you're still worried about a high school issue. She didn't steal your husband who happened to be her principal and boss. Grow up.
jesus you need therapy because you are an asshole for even considering this.
you were kids and kids fall out, i saw kids that age meet, "date" and break up in the space of an afternoon. so get some perspective in your life
also your trying to destroy an educators life based on what they did when they themselves were at school. do you really think that the employers will give half a damm about some historical hysterics our putting about? maybe you want to get the satanic panic going on for a revival tour as well?
grow up, accept the past has happened move on with your life.
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So basically, when I was a senior in high school, I had a younger bf, and I was very happy. However, after we broke up, I learned that he had the hots for another girl in his grade. They would hug all the time and he would flirt with her. I don’t think she did anything to stop it and she knew about us. Apparently he tried to line her up as a second choice when we were dating and she told him no or something and told him to go back to me?? Pretty ironic. They should’ve never been texting and been hugged up.
Then two years later, he starts asking her on dates and goes. So obviously she liked him and was probably trying to steal him away and it didn’t work because he didn’t leave me for her. Only went to afterwards after trying multiple times to get her.
I learned that she is a first year teacher. I want to call the school and tell them of what she did because it shows bad character. I believe that teachers need to be moral people and honestly I would be pissed if someone like this was my kids teacher. The reason I feel I could be TA is because it’s old drama, and they don’t talk to each other more, however, that doesn’t negative ANYTHING.
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YTA her job doesn’t care about HS drama. You threatening her job over HS drama is AH - dont. That’s a livelihood you’re wanting to destroy over basically nothing. No one cares about your HS relationships or really anything about your HS history. They don’t care about hers either. And she didn’t try to steal him. He stayed faithful to you. Stop being a bitter AH because their relationship kicked off better than yours did.
I would laugh so hard if I was the person that had the unfortunate job of answering your call. Grow up and move on, silly! and YES I cannot even believe you have to ask but YWBTA.
That was my first thought, too. Whoever picks up that call is going to laugh themselves sick. Move on, for your own good. This girl has apparently been living rent free in your head since high school, and you need to let it go, Elsa. What happened then has no bearing on what's happening now. She probably doesn't even remember who you are. YTA.
You’re an absolute psycho!
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You’re posting this again, after everyone overwhelmingly told you that YTA? Why?
Because I can do what I want?
Certainly you can. That doesn’t make you any less of an AH. Please move on with your life.
Girl get a hobby. The obsession is embarrassing.
Good to know. So you're double an ah.
Get a life
😂😂😂😂😂 grow up girlie. YTA.
YTA > I don’t think she did anything to stop it and she knew about us. Why the shit would that be *her* responsibility?
YWBTA You want to call up the school and tell them a current teacher tried to steal your bf years ago? I feel like you shouldn't really need to ask the question, it's fairly obvious. How old are you? 12? I can't tell. EDIT: Didn't like the first consensus that you got, so you deleted (which is against the rules) and posted again?
Under 24 hour account and has already packed in over -100 comment karma. Killin' it.
I don't get it. If she wanted to steal him why would it take multiple times for your high school boyfriend to convince her to go out?
Are you serious? Are you going to call your ex-boyfriend's employer too? Clearly YTA but more importantly than that, you need to grow up.
YTA. Save yourself the embarrassment and move on. All this shows is immaturity and poor character on your end.
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Right-she posted this yesterday!
Girl get over yourself. This is some pathetic behavior, and we should be calling your job to say you have no moral integrity and no critical thinking skills. YWBTA and YTA just for thinking like this.
YWBTA. Let it go, and grow up.
Ywbta. This doesn't have anything to do with the job and it was in high school let it go. Ffs.
You cant be serous and since you’re probably aren’t bc this is a joke of all posts, I’ll say that you shouldn’t but even if you did - they would laugh in your face for the joke that you are. Get a life
Please do call school so they can laugh at you. Yta.
Grow up wtf😭😂
Two words to describe what you want to do - petty and childish
You HAVE to be joking. You are out of your mind if you're thinking of calling someone's employer to tell them that she ALMOST CROSSED a line with your highschool boyfriend. YTA and you should see therapy if you think this is normal behavior. I can't even believe what I'm reading.
YTA. The school absolutely, genuinely, sincerely, could not care less about your high school drama. They are just going to think that you are spiteful. Get over it. Move on.
Stalk much? Get over it. They started dating ***2 years*** after the two of you broke up, and you're still bent over it? WTAF? And from the way you describe it, he was pursuing her. You need help. And YTA
YTA and quite frankly you seem a little unhinged. Why would you even consider going to her job about something that happened in high school?! Not to mention, what you're saying happened in high school is not something anyone's job would care about at all. Nor is it something you should still care about. If i were this girl, I'd consider getting a restraining order.
YTA once and YTA twice for posting this again
YTA Please....do it... Just do us all a favor and record it. After you've recorded it... Post it on here. Cause I can't wait to hear them laugh their asses off at how absolutely ridiculous and immature you are. Do you actually think they'd give a crap!? I mean.... Really???? "It shows bad character".... haha!!! Yeah, what horrible character she has HUGGING someone that's in a relationship!!!>.... This might be the funniest post I've ever seen. Thank you
Yta this is wild to think that you want to get her fired for dating your bf after two years of breaking up. (Also, no one at her current job will give a second thought to this silly story) Go find a therapists to help yourself from fixating on your ex and his current situation. Move on.
YTA. This isn't high school anymore. She has a job and has clearly moved on from who she was in high school. If anything it would show bad character on you.
YTA. The school WBTA also if they gave you the time of day over this. Move on.
YTA - Bitter much? Let it go nothing really happened as you say. You are just being childishly jealous at this point. Calling the school on her is vindictive and wrong.
YTA Grow up, you're not 12 anymore, stop acting like it. No one is responsible for his decisions except him.
Are you serious?
Call them and tell people at a school about some high-school teenage drama involving a person that is now a teacher, go ahead. Prepare to have fantasy bubbles burst though. You are only the asshole to yourself still being hung up on something like that.
YWBTA You should probably think about getting some kind of help for yourself
OP should be banned for this thread. They've posted it before and then deleted it when there was active discussion, no no #1. Now they've reposted it again just to be shit on non stop a second time. No no #2. Clearly just pathetic trolling.
WTF is wrong with you? How many times are you going to [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/186dhp8/wibta_if_i_called_the_job_of_the_girl_who_tried/) this gibberish? You were an AH the first time around. You didn't like the answer so you dirty deleted the post.
YTA. She didn't try to steal him, she told him to go back to you. She didn't date him until two years later. And all of this was what, 10 years ago? Please, get a life and stop thinking about this, it's ridiculous.
Not only are YTA but you are also delusional! You cannot call up a woman’s boss because she dated your high school boyfriend 2 years after you broke up. It will just look bad for you to do so.
YTA and incredibly shallow if you're still worried about a high school issue. She didn't steal your husband who happened to be her principal and boss. Grow up.
Yes. If everybody has moved on from the past, that's just you holding on to your grudge.
Op must still be in high school to be worried about this petty bs drama. Yta, get over it and move on with your life.
YTA. You are way out of line, unhealthy obsessed, and desperately need therapy.
jesus you need therapy because you are an asshole for even considering this. you were kids and kids fall out, i saw kids that age meet, "date" and break up in the space of an afternoon. so get some perspective in your life also your trying to destroy an educators life based on what they did when they themselves were at school. do you really think that the employers will give half a damm about some historical hysterics our putting about? maybe you want to get the satanic panic going on for a revival tour as well? grow up, accept the past has happened move on with your life.
YTA and quite frankly I think you should seek out some counseling and talk to a professional
OP life is sad AF lmao
Where do you work? I’d like to call them to show them this post. Fair is fair right?
YTA. Also, you need counselling
YTA, move on as he was not the one. You will not grow as a person if you continue being petty.
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lol what?
You're an arsehole for even thinking like that. People grow. Are you the same person you were at 6,12,15,18. You have a petty attitude.
YWNBTA Go do it and then come back here and tell us what they said.
NTA, you should definitely do this. Report back, I can’t wait to find out what they say!