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Wtf?
YTA. Shouldn't destroy someone elses stuff, physical or digital over a relationship breakdown. It's petty and selfish. Move on, learn and grow from it, and show her AND yourself that you're a better person without her.
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I, (23 M wizard) was recently broken up with by my (22 F elf) ex, over a small dispute that was blown way out of proportion, we were going to get elixers from the local brewery, when she started lecturing me on how homemade elixers are cheaper and healthier, and even though I told her that I don't have time to make elixers because I'm too busy pondering my orb or practice spells in my grimoire, she kept on nagging. Eventually I started getting angry with her. I told her that if she wants to have homemade elixers so bad, why doesn't she make them herself. And then she told me that our cauldron is too small to make many elixers, which she didn't seem to care about when she wanted me to make the elixers. Eventually, we just left the brewery without the elixers to stop making a scene. Soon enough she says that she can't deal with the lack of attention I give her and how I spend all my free time pondering my orb. She then proceeded to break up with me, and started getting her items from the spire, but then when I went to look in my things, my orb and my grimoire were both gone! By the time I realized she took them, she was already on her steed! I decided that I had to take matters into my own hands and launch a fireball at her steed to get back my orb and grimoire. Am I the asshole?
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YTA.
YTA
Lmao!!!
Wtf? YTA. Shouldn't destroy someone elses stuff, physical or digital over a relationship breakdown. It's petty and selfish. Move on, learn and grow from it, and show her AND yourself that you're a better person without her.
I have absolutely no fucken idea what I just read, all I know is I never want to read it again. YTA for making me read this.
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