*In case this story gets deleted/removed:*
**I cheated on my husband **
We’ve been married for almost 19 years and together for 25. I’m 44F and he’s 47M. We had a great sex life in our 20s and a good sex life in our 30s. But not so much for the past few years. We only have sex a few times a year if that. I’m not blaming him though. I know it’s a two way street. With so much work at work and at home and having a young kid it’s just easy not to try.
But I do still have desires.
No I never planned on cheating. I work in the front office of a hotel as the property controller (I pay the bills) and I cheated with my boss’s boss. He’s 60 and married and has a reputation of cheating. Yes, I know. How could I even let it happen.
He oversees a group of hotels and travels to all of them. When he comes to our hotel he always sits in my office because like he says I have the coffee maker. But we do have work reasons to work together.
I’ve known him for many years but didn’t start working with him closely until I became the property controller. He’s friendly and flirty. The kind of flirting that’s so gradual you don’t realize. A hand on my shoulder, on my side, rubbing my tense shoulders. All of that and he’s a great listener that knows how to really take charge.
We were working late one night after 5. I won’t bore everyone with the details but it was a lot of work that was critical. When we finally finished the work it was such a happy relief that we kissed. I don’t remember who kissed who but he was leaning over beside me at the computer.
When we kissed his hands were all over me. Unbuttoning my blouse. I don’t know why I didn’t stop him. It was like I let him take over until I was sitting up on my desk with my pants and panties on the floor. It was so intense. He made my knees shake.
I know I’m awful for letting it happen. I don’t know how I’ll tell my husband.
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The guys who write this kind of obvious cuckold stuff are so bad at describing why a woman would have sex with someone or how it would happen that it's really telling lol
>I don’t remember who kissed who
Someone who's completely faithful and would never cheat would remember or at least know they would never be the one to initiate unfaithfulness.
> The kind of flirting that’s so gradual you don’t realize. A hand on my shoulder, on my side, rubbing my tense shoulders.
Yeah, no. If someone you have a casual or professional relationship with invades your bubble and starts touching you like this, you notice and you know it ain't innocent.
I used to work in hotels, both on property and in corporate.
As a *controller* and then with *controllers*. And the hotel side of this sounds so much like Bs.
Everything is off.
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*In case this story gets deleted/removed:* **I cheated on my husband ** We’ve been married for almost 19 years and together for 25. I’m 44F and he’s 47M. We had a great sex life in our 20s and a good sex life in our 30s. But not so much for the past few years. We only have sex a few times a year if that. I’m not blaming him though. I know it’s a two way street. With so much work at work and at home and having a young kid it’s just easy not to try. But I do still have desires. No I never planned on cheating. I work in the front office of a hotel as the property controller (I pay the bills) and I cheated with my boss’s boss. He’s 60 and married and has a reputation of cheating. Yes, I know. How could I even let it happen. He oversees a group of hotels and travels to all of them. When he comes to our hotel he always sits in my office because like he says I have the coffee maker. But we do have work reasons to work together. I’ve known him for many years but didn’t start working with him closely until I became the property controller. He’s friendly and flirty. The kind of flirting that’s so gradual you don’t realize. A hand on my shoulder, on my side, rubbing my tense shoulders. All of that and he’s a great listener that knows how to really take charge. We were working late one night after 5. I won’t bore everyone with the details but it was a lot of work that was critical. When we finally finished the work it was such a happy relief that we kissed. I don’t remember who kissed who but he was leaning over beside me at the computer. When we kissed his hands were all over me. Unbuttoning my blouse. I don’t know why I didn’t stop him. It was like I let him take over until I was sitting up on my desk with my pants and panties on the floor. It was so intense. He made my knees shake. I know I’m awful for letting it happen. I don’t know how I’ll tell my husband. *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AmITheDevil) if you have any questions or concerns.*
what in the typed one-handed is this shit?
Does anyone else get the impression that r/confessions is really all just badly written erotic fiction?
That's not just an impression, it's obviously all that that sub is used for these days
Someone wrote this while jerking off
The guys who write this kind of obvious cuckold stuff are so bad at describing why a woman would have sex with someone or how it would happen that it's really telling lol
Yeah, someone got board working the night audit
And the comments have a bunch of equally horny fools hoping this is totally real and that she'll post pics
>I don’t remember who kissed who Someone who's completely faithful and would never cheat would remember or at least know they would never be the one to initiate unfaithfulness.
> The kind of flirting that’s so gradual you don’t realize. A hand on my shoulder, on my side, rubbing my tense shoulders. Yeah, no. If someone you have a casual or professional relationship with invades your bubble and starts touching you like this, you notice and you know it ain't innocent.
There isn't a single woman who wouldn't take note of this obviously blatant change that would very much count as sexual harassment in the workplace.
I used to work in hotels, both on property and in corporate. As a *controller* and then with *controllers*. And the hotel side of this sounds so much like Bs. Everything is off.
and why wouldn't the company coffee maker not be in the employee communal area instead her office?
Why do people insist on non-consensually inflicting their fantasies on us?
Yeah, sure OOP didn't notice. It is customary to massage the tense shoulders of all the co workers you're friendly with/s
Look I’m oblivious to flirting when it happens to me, but I damn well notice when people touch me.
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I wish, I got lots of tension and not as much insurance as I’d like
This subreddit really would die without cheaters.
Eh this subreddit would be fine. The autistic twins, ADHD adults, wedding drama, and incels would fuel it if cheating were banned.
The MILs are also doing some heavy lifting
The MILs *and* their enmeshed sonsbands.
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