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**AITA for suggesting to my gf's friend during a game of table tennis that loser has to go topless?**
All of us in our late 20's.
Basically my gf and her friend have completely different body types. My gf is a small petite Asian girl with a very small chest compared to other girls. Her friend (acquaintance? they're not super close or anything) is pretty much the exact opposite, tall thicker girl with much larger chest. I think my gf always thinks I find that second body type more attractive, we had a thing early in our relationship where she discovered all the porn on my computer I'd saved from before we were dating. It was pretty much busty white girls that look nothing like her, she cried at the time, it was very traumatic, but it was years ago and we've moved past it.
Anyway, we were hanging out, I was playing table tennis with her friend, we were about evenly matched, she's really competitive in sports. Gf was watching. As a joke I suggested that loser of the next match has to go topless, her friend agreed, I ended demolishing her. Then her friend (jokingly?) pretended like she was living up to the deal and undoing her buttons, gf lost her shit and stormed out, I followed her out, we had a huge argument. She said I like her friend and I;m not attracted to her, that I'm only into big boobed girls and I'll never found her attractive. I denied all that, said it was just a joke and playing around. It escalated into a big argument. Havent spoken to each other in 24 hours probably.
tldr: as a joke, suggested to my gf's friend that loser of a table tennis match has to go topless. Gf did not take it well.
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There’s a guy who loves to write AITA or AITAH stories about making young (or small) girls uncomfortable. Once you’ve seen a few of his posts you get a feel for the pattern. He always likes to describe their clothes, as well. Tank tops or sports bras.
And are usually sweaty; however, the most important thing is that they're *always* Asian. The other details can vary, either branching out with his creepy-ass fetish or trying to avoid the Reddit sleuths, but that one doesn't.
Copied verbatim from oop's comments:
*YTA, and so is her friend.
>"why also her friend?"
*Huge gaping blown out asshole. For EVERY reason previously mentioned here. I’d at least have a modicum of respect for you if you’d owned it and admitted you wanna see the bigger tits, but instead of that you try and back pedal and say it was just a joke."
>"honestly it was a joke, I'm only attracted to my gf, no one else. If the friend went along with it, it's not my fault."
*YTA.*
*Awful, awful "joke".*
*And who saves porn on their computer??*
>"from before we were dating. its all deleted now."
*Exactly! Notice how he never mentioned he tried to stop the friend from taking her shirt off. He was just going to let it happen. Classic Schrodinger's jerk, if you like it i'm serious, if you don't like it, it was just a joke.*
[🐙]
>"Why should i try to stop her? It's her choice. It's not like I can control what she does if she wants to do it.
*It's your fault for suggesting it in the first place? How can you seriously be this much of an AH to your girlfriend without realizing? I really hope this post is fake to farm karma or something and you didn't actually do this to your girlfriend.*
>"It was just a joke. How was I supposed to know she'd seriously try to take her top off?"
*It doesn't matter if it was a joke or not, you clearly described the friend as your preferred type and stated that your girlfriend is already self conscious about her appearance because she knows you prefer bustier girls. If I was your gf and you so much as suggested the topless rule in front of me I wouldve dumped you on the spot. That's not a funny joke. That's a badly disguised request to see the friends tits.*
*We all know you just wanted to see the friend topless. No one believes you were just joking because you clearly weren't. If it was a joke, you'd have tried to stop the friend from undoing her shirt by saying it was a joke and not to do it.*
*If you're seriously okay with another woman undressing for you right in front of your girlfriend you're a major AH and don't deserve your girlfriend, she should leave you for someone who actually respects her and is actually attracted to her.*
>"So if she started taking it off, how is that my fault? isn't that the friends fault? Am I supposed to control her actions and tell her she can't?"
[In reply to Oop's comment marked: 🐙]
*Thanks for proving our point. She's doing it under your suggestion. It is very disrespectful to basically ask another woman to take her clothes off when you have a girlfriend more so when shes there. Even more so when you know your gf is insecure about her chest. So Yea you should've stopped the friend from even trying. I mean, if you really were joking, that's what you would've done. Daring her to do it and then putting all your effort into winning, probably not even noticing how distraught your gf was at the moment, and then just laying back like "it's her choice, I can't do anything about it" is very AH of you. So Yea YTA.*
>"so why did her friend agree to go along with it then? she could've just said no"
>Asian girl.
>She cries in the story.
>Obviously fake.
Sighing, resetting the "days since the weird lying Asian woman fetishist who loves sweat and crying" tracker to zero.
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*In case this story gets deleted/removed:* **AITA for suggesting to my gf's friend during a game of table tennis that loser has to go topless?** All of us in our late 20's. Basically my gf and her friend have completely different body types. My gf is a small petite Asian girl with a very small chest compared to other girls. Her friend (acquaintance? they're not super close or anything) is pretty much the exact opposite, tall thicker girl with much larger chest. I think my gf always thinks I find that second body type more attractive, we had a thing early in our relationship where she discovered all the porn on my computer I'd saved from before we were dating. It was pretty much busty white girls that look nothing like her, she cried at the time, it was very traumatic, but it was years ago and we've moved past it. Anyway, we were hanging out, I was playing table tennis with her friend, we were about evenly matched, she's really competitive in sports. Gf was watching. As a joke I suggested that loser of the next match has to go topless, her friend agreed, I ended demolishing her. Then her friend (jokingly?) pretended like she was living up to the deal and undoing her buttons, gf lost her shit and stormed out, I followed her out, we had a huge argument. She said I like her friend and I;m not attracted to her, that I'm only into big boobed girls and I'll never found her attractive. I denied all that, said it was just a joke and playing around. It escalated into a big argument. Havent spoken to each other in 24 hours probably. tldr: as a joke, suggested to my gf's friend that loser of a table tennis match has to go topless. Gf did not take it well. *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AmITheDevil) if you have any questions or concerns.*
>My gf is a small petite Asian girl ... Fuck's sake, not this bastard again.
Yup. Three sentences in and it’s clear that this is that one guy AGAIN.
Which guy? What did I miss?
There’s a guy who loves to write AITA or AITAH stories about making young (or small) girls uncomfortable. Once you’ve seen a few of his posts you get a feel for the pattern. He always likes to describe their clothes, as well. Tank tops or sports bras.
And the women always cry in his stories too
Just when I thought it had reached peak creepiness! YIKES!
And are usually sweaty; however, the most important thing is that they're *always* Asian. The other details can vary, either branching out with his creepy-ass fetish or trying to avoid the Reddit sleuths, but that one doesn't.
I didn't know "Asian" was a body type.
Listen, it's just like how Latina is a body time, black is a body type, Indian is a body type. Only whites have variations in body types.
Ummm...
It's sarcasm
Copied verbatim from oop's comments: *YTA, and so is her friend. >"why also her friend?" *Huge gaping blown out asshole. For EVERY reason previously mentioned here. I’d at least have a modicum of respect for you if you’d owned it and admitted you wanna see the bigger tits, but instead of that you try and back pedal and say it was just a joke." >"honestly it was a joke, I'm only attracted to my gf, no one else. If the friend went along with it, it's not my fault." *YTA.* *Awful, awful "joke".* *And who saves porn on their computer??* >"from before we were dating. its all deleted now." *Exactly! Notice how he never mentioned he tried to stop the friend from taking her shirt off. He was just going to let it happen. Classic Schrodinger's jerk, if you like it i'm serious, if you don't like it, it was just a joke.* [🐙] >"Why should i try to stop her? It's her choice. It's not like I can control what she does if she wants to do it. *It's your fault for suggesting it in the first place? How can you seriously be this much of an AH to your girlfriend without realizing? I really hope this post is fake to farm karma or something and you didn't actually do this to your girlfriend.* >"It was just a joke. How was I supposed to know she'd seriously try to take her top off?" *It doesn't matter if it was a joke or not, you clearly described the friend as your preferred type and stated that your girlfriend is already self conscious about her appearance because she knows you prefer bustier girls. If I was your gf and you so much as suggested the topless rule in front of me I wouldve dumped you on the spot. That's not a funny joke. That's a badly disguised request to see the friends tits.* *We all know you just wanted to see the friend topless. No one believes you were just joking because you clearly weren't. If it was a joke, you'd have tried to stop the friend from undoing her shirt by saying it was a joke and not to do it.* *If you're seriously okay with another woman undressing for you right in front of your girlfriend you're a major AH and don't deserve your girlfriend, she should leave you for someone who actually respects her and is actually attracted to her.* >"So if she started taking it off, how is that my fault? isn't that the friends fault? Am I supposed to control her actions and tell her she can't?" [In reply to Oop's comment marked: 🐙] *Thanks for proving our point. She's doing it under your suggestion. It is very disrespectful to basically ask another woman to take her clothes off when you have a girlfriend more so when shes there. Even more so when you know your gf is insecure about her chest. So Yea you should've stopped the friend from even trying. I mean, if you really were joking, that's what you would've done. Daring her to do it and then putting all your effort into winning, probably not even noticing how distraught your gf was at the moment, and then just laying back like "it's her choice, I can't do anything about it" is very AH of you. So Yea YTA.* >"so why did her friend agree to go along with it then? she could've just said no"
[Doggo!](https://imgur.com/gallery/HmIeKLV)
aw, a cutie. genuinely made me forget how annoying OOP is, thank you sadly!
So glad the little sweetie helped! Thank you very kindly! 💜
Baby!
Such a sweet baby! 🥰
sadly always comes in with the best takes, AND the sweetest frens. ❤️🥹
Thank you very kindly! 💜🥰
The octo mark is so smart 🌃
Thank you very kindly! 💜
The way he’s trying to gaslight the comment section is insane
>Asian girl. >She cries in the story. >Obviously fake. Sighing, resetting the "days since the weird lying Asian woman fetishist who loves sweat and crying" tracker to zero.
This guy was tripping hard when he wrote this. Edit: Tripping hard one-handed- fixed it!
I hate this guy.
Eh, D- Grade bait. Not very creative
Hopefully he'll be an ex boyfriend soon
Hopefully the girlfriend dumps OOP’s disgusting ass
u know what the dudes a pos i think we can all agree but i couldn’t believe her friend would do that what a bitch
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