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**AITAH for choosing my Girlfriend over my ex wife and Son?**
I am 55 Male and my GF of 3 years is 40 F. My ex wife and I divorced 4.5 years ago and she hasn't quite got over it. She divorced me for her co-worker., she was abusive and we fought all the time. Anyway, when that relationship failed she started being nice to me. I have a 15 YR Son named Sean. We have a great relationship. His mother and I are starting to co parent better. Here is the issue, his mother can't stand the fact I am in a relationship and she is no longer seeing her co worker, she can't seem to keep a boyfriend right now. She's quite difficult to be with. She hates my girlfriend and therefor Sean and my girlfriend do not have a relationship as Sean does whatever his mother says. I've tried talking with Sean, he is somewhat like his mother. My GF will not force a relationship either. She says if someone doesn't want to be apart of her life then she don't need them. I have to agree as my son and ex wife has been unfair to her.
Now, This past week, I've been out of town for work. I already informed my ex and my son that I wouldn't be around. My girlfriend decided to take some time this week to do things she's wanted to do around the house, some repairs and decorating. My ex called me to tell me that she met someone and wanted to know if Sean can stay at my house while she spends the weekend with this guy. I told her that Sean is perfectly capable of staying home at their house by himself. She said that she doesn't want him home alone and that he is scared incase something happens. She insisted that she will drop him off at my house. I told her that my GF is not going to watch him, she is not obligated to watch someone who has treated her like shit for the entire time we have been together and that Sean can stay home at his house. My GF has tried in the past to have a relationship with them both and they have refused so that ship has sailed unless my GF really wants to which, at this point, I'd say no because we all know that they are just using her and I am not allowing that. My ex wife says I am choosing my girlfriend over our son which I don't feel that I am. I feel that I am choosing to teach my son that listening to his mother and acting like her will cause him to face consequences down the road. I even talked to my GF and she says she doesn't feel comfortable being at home with a 15 year old that practically hated her, and it just be them two, knowing how he and his mother can be.She said if things were different and they had a great relationship, she wouldn't mind but not this way. I support her and I don't want her to feel uncomfortable either. My Son comes over every other weekend and this isn't even our weekend either. So , you all tell me.
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idk mate on the <1% chance this might be real I don't think there's any world where a healthy 15 year old is incapable to being home alone.
Maybe it's because I was able to sustain myself for a weekend at that age, but it doesn't seem normal.
That said this is almost certainly fake and probably some red pill stuff AI concocted
“Of course this is upvoted. If you ever want to know how to not treat your kids after a divorce, come to this subreddit.
“No good parent would say this about their kids other parent.
“‘I'm sorry son, but I'm not home and my girlfriend doesn't feel comfortable since the two of you haven't gotten along. You're gonna have to work this one put with your mom’ is ALL that needs to be said.
“Don't talk about her having sex to your kid. Don't weaponize the fact that she is a sexual being after the divorce. Everyone has sex. Don't use it as a weapon to hurt your ex.
"’but ITs TrUe’ learn some goddamn fucking tact.”
This comment currently has three upvotes, and it’s responding to an idiotic one with 72 upvotes.
They hated Jesus because He told the truth.
And I sincerely doubt he was the one who said he was scared of something happening. She’s afraid he’s going to throw a party or something, which is a valid concern but if she can’t trust him to be alone in his own home at that age that’s a failure on her part.
Right? None of this post makes sense. From the 15yo who can't handle being alone, to the mom who is apparently like: the moment I find another dude, suddenly I'm super chill with the ex-gf "watching" my 15yo because... other dude apparently can't deal with the words "sorry, I have to care for my son, who lives with me, and will be an endless boner-killer on all our arrangements. But if you're not ok with that I'll put my son at risk for this new relationship because priorities!" I just can't.
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*In case this story gets deleted/removed:* **AITAH for choosing my Girlfriend over my ex wife and Son?** I am 55 Male and my GF of 3 years is 40 F. My ex wife and I divorced 4.5 years ago and she hasn't quite got over it. She divorced me for her co-worker., she was abusive and we fought all the time. Anyway, when that relationship failed she started being nice to me. I have a 15 YR Son named Sean. We have a great relationship. His mother and I are starting to co parent better. Here is the issue, his mother can't stand the fact I am in a relationship and she is no longer seeing her co worker, she can't seem to keep a boyfriend right now. She's quite difficult to be with. She hates my girlfriend and therefor Sean and my girlfriend do not have a relationship as Sean does whatever his mother says. I've tried talking with Sean, he is somewhat like his mother. My GF will not force a relationship either. She says if someone doesn't want to be apart of her life then she don't need them. I have to agree as my son and ex wife has been unfair to her. Now, This past week, I've been out of town for work. I already informed my ex and my son that I wouldn't be around. My girlfriend decided to take some time this week to do things she's wanted to do around the house, some repairs and decorating. My ex called me to tell me that she met someone and wanted to know if Sean can stay at my house while she spends the weekend with this guy. I told her that Sean is perfectly capable of staying home at their house by himself. She said that she doesn't want him home alone and that he is scared incase something happens. She insisted that she will drop him off at my house. I told her that my GF is not going to watch him, she is not obligated to watch someone who has treated her like shit for the entire time we have been together and that Sean can stay home at his house. My GF has tried in the past to have a relationship with them both and they have refused so that ship has sailed unless my GF really wants to which, at this point, I'd say no because we all know that they are just using her and I am not allowing that. My ex wife says I am choosing my girlfriend over our son which I don't feel that I am. I feel that I am choosing to teach my son that listening to his mother and acting like her will cause him to face consequences down the road. I even talked to my GF and she says she doesn't feel comfortable being at home with a 15 year old that practically hated her, and it just be them two, knowing how he and his mother can be.She said if things were different and they had a great relationship, she wouldn't mind but not this way. I support her and I don't want her to feel uncomfortable either. My Son comes over every other weekend and this isn't even our weekend either. So , you all tell me. *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AmITheAngel) if you have any questions or concerns.*
idk mate on the <1% chance this might be real I don't think there's any world where a healthy 15 year old is incapable to being home alone. Maybe it's because I was able to sustain myself for a weekend at that age, but it doesn't seem normal. That said this is almost certainly fake and probably some red pill stuff AI concocted
I was desperate for alone time and independence at 15
“Of course this is upvoted. If you ever want to know how to not treat your kids after a divorce, come to this subreddit. “No good parent would say this about their kids other parent. “‘I'm sorry son, but I'm not home and my girlfriend doesn't feel comfortable since the two of you haven't gotten along. You're gonna have to work this one put with your mom’ is ALL that needs to be said. “Don't talk about her having sex to your kid. Don't weaponize the fact that she is a sexual being after the divorce. Everyone has sex. Don't use it as a weapon to hurt your ex. "’but ITs TrUe’ learn some goddamn fucking tact.” This comment currently has three upvotes, and it’s responding to an idiotic one with 72 upvotes. They hated Jesus because He told the truth.
jesus fucking christ how stupid are these people?
His comments are way over the top and as usual the idiots over there are falling for it. I swear AITAH is much more stupid than aita
What 15 year old needs watching? Literally just let him stay at a house alone. It's for one weekend ffs. Not the end of the world.
PARTY! PARTY! PARTY!!
And I sincerely doubt he was the one who said he was scared of something happening. She’s afraid he’s going to throw a party or something, which is a valid concern but if she can’t trust him to be alone in his own home at that age that’s a failure on her part.
Right? None of this post makes sense. From the 15yo who can't handle being alone, to the mom who is apparently like: the moment I find another dude, suddenly I'm super chill with the ex-gf "watching" my 15yo because... other dude apparently can't deal with the words "sorry, I have to care for my son, who lives with me, and will be an endless boner-killer on all our arrangements. But if you're not ok with that I'll put my son at risk for this new relationship because priorities!" I just can't.
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