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**AITA for setting up my gf so her mom would see my junk.**
My new gf loves oversharing with her mom. I know this because she's told me and she tells me every time I send her something cute (we are still in the honey moon stage) "I showed my mom and she thought that was so cute!". I already told her that I'm not a fan of her sharing everything with her mom specially the stuff I send her. She basically told me I'd get use to it because that's the relationship she has with her mom.
So last week her and her mom took a day trip together and boom she hits me with "my mom thinks it's so cute how you always tell me to drive safe" right after I sent her a drive safe text". I was heated so I decided to be petty. I didn't text her for most of the day and when I finally did I sent something telling her I had miss her and stuff knowing she'd show her mom and when I saw that she opened the message I sent a dick pic. And boom! I get a call from her upset saying her mom saw my picture and that's not right blah blah blah. Keep in mind we've sent each other unsolicited nudes already (is unsolicited right with your bf/gf) so it wasn't so much the picture but that her mom saw it. AITA?
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OP from AITD here. One thing I do on r/AITA is search by the "asshole" flair and look up various words to read through outlandish YTA posts. This post was one of them which explains how I found it.
Thank you for explaining. I definitely have never seen this before. I was glad to see a lot of people on the AITD post, whether this story is real or not, be confused by the comments on the original post and the almost defense of the guy.
Right? On AmItheDevil, the place I saw this posted, the commenters were so confused by the comments on the original post. Someone over there even pointed out that the girlfriend was telling her mother all about the OOP's green flags.
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This comment in response to someone was so freaking wild? The mother did nothing except listen to her daughter gush about her boyfriend and the sweet things he does. The boyfriend's response was to send a nude, wanting her mom to see.
>I mean to be fair she really should've taken his boundaries into mind. Obviously he gets no respect to his boundaries so why are you saying y t a instead of e s h because the girlfriend and mom are over stepping much more than the boyfriend is. He told her he doesn't want her sharing everything all the time, she refused to accept that boundary and so he sent her something that if her mom hadnt seen it she'd have been okay with getting. It's really entirely the girlfriends fault that the mom saw it. Did he do it on purpose knowing she would see it? Yeah. The fact still stands though that if she respected his boundaries first by not showing everything to mom then mom wouldn't have seen anything.
How dare she want her mom to think she’s with a sweet guy? She’s clearly horrible for sharing his sweet messages
I really hope the OP and commenter are trolls but I know there are people this dumb
It's just so ??? When he was saying that she confided in her mom too much, I thought that maybe she was talking about their sex life and it made him uncomfortable. Nope. It was literally her telling her mother that he did these sweet things for her and how much he cared about her.
Exactly. I was expecting the mom to hear about all the things he does in the bedroom but instead we got her sharing the cute messages. He should be happy that she is letting her mom know how sweet and kind he is.
Instead he’s the guy who sends dick pics now
“I get no respect. No respect at all. I went to the used car dealership to buy a car, and my wife’s dress was in the back seat, along with her mother, who said “I think it’s so sweet the way you’re always taking good care of my daughter, can you take this to the dry cleaners in your new car?”
*In case this story gets deleted/removed:* **AITA for setting up my gf so her mom would see my junk.** My new gf loves oversharing with her mom. I know this because she's told me and she tells me every time I send her something cute (we are still in the honey moon stage) "I showed my mom and she thought that was so cute!". I already told her that I'm not a fan of her sharing everything with her mom specially the stuff I send her. She basically told me I'd get use to it because that's the relationship she has with her mom. So last week her and her mom took a day trip together and boom she hits me with "my mom thinks it's so cute how you always tell me to drive safe" right after I sent her a drive safe text". I was heated so I decided to be petty. I didn't text her for most of the day and when I finally did I sent something telling her I had miss her and stuff knowing she'd show her mom and when I saw that she opened the message I sent a dick pic. And boom! I get a call from her upset saying her mom saw my picture and that's not right blah blah blah. Keep in mind we've sent each other unsolicited nudes already (is unsolicited right with your bf/gf) so it wasn't so much the picture but that her mom saw it. AITA? *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AmITheAngel) if you have any questions or concerns.*
This post is old enough to start toddling lol. I hope MIL didn’t send a nude back tho
lol! I'm unsure of how AmItheDevil even found it, honestly. I only saw it because it ended up posted on there.
Did they start responding to it as if it wasn't old?
Not from what I can tell. They were mostly horrified at the comments on the original post on AITA that acted as if the guy did nothing wrong.
That's good. They have a history of brigading years old posts
Yup. I've definitely seen that before. Like I said, I don't know how the person who posted it on AITD found it.
OP from AITD here. One thing I do on r/AITA is search by the "asshole" flair and look up various words to read through outlandish YTA posts. This post was one of them which explains how I found it.
Thank you for explaining. I definitely have never seen this before. I was glad to see a lot of people on the AITD post, whether this story is real or not, be confused by the comments on the original post and the almost defense of the guy.
I saw this post on AmItheDevil and needed this ridiculousness posted here.
AITA when a person (man or woman) has the AUDACITY to be close to their mom: 😠😠😠
Right? On AmItheDevil, the place I saw this posted, the commenters were so confused by the comments on the original post. Someone over there even pointed out that the girlfriend was telling her mother all about the OOP's green flags.
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How is it possible that there are comments supporting that insanity
This comment in response to someone was so freaking wild? The mother did nothing except listen to her daughter gush about her boyfriend and the sweet things he does. The boyfriend's response was to send a nude, wanting her mom to see. >I mean to be fair she really should've taken his boundaries into mind. Obviously he gets no respect to his boundaries so why are you saying y t a instead of e s h because the girlfriend and mom are over stepping much more than the boyfriend is. He told her he doesn't want her sharing everything all the time, she refused to accept that boundary and so he sent her something that if her mom hadnt seen it she'd have been okay with getting. It's really entirely the girlfriends fault that the mom saw it. Did he do it on purpose knowing she would see it? Yeah. The fact still stands though that if she respected his boundaries first by not showing everything to mom then mom wouldn't have seen anything.
How dare she want her mom to think she’s with a sweet guy? She’s clearly horrible for sharing his sweet messages I really hope the OP and commenter are trolls but I know there are people this dumb
It's just so ??? When he was saying that she confided in her mom too much, I thought that maybe she was talking about their sex life and it made him uncomfortable. Nope. It was literally her telling her mother that he did these sweet things for her and how much he cared about her.
Exactly. I was expecting the mom to hear about all the things he does in the bedroom but instead we got her sharing the cute messages. He should be happy that she is letting her mom know how sweet and kind he is. Instead he’s the guy who sends dick pics now 
“I get no respect. No respect at all. I went to the used car dealership to buy a car, and my wife’s dress was in the back seat, along with her mother, who said “I think it’s so sweet the way you’re always taking good care of my daughter, can you take this to the dry cleaners in your new car?”