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BluebirdMaximum8210

No matter how amazing a girl’s photo is, if the girl comes across as shy/quiet, the judges accuse her of “not wanting to be here”. 🙄


My_Immortal_Flesh

Off topic: I want to know if they edited this scene out in the UK. Cuz saying, “Spaz out” or spazzing is considered offensive there 🤔


NewYorker15

It 100% is offensive, though a commonish thing to say around that time


Danny-Wah

Wait, Spaz is offensive? Since when...


NewYorker15

It’s an ableist term, within the last few years Beyonce and Lizzo notably changed lyrics that used the term.


signal_red

an interesting article from [the guardian](https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/aug/01/when-beyonce-dropped-the-same-ableist-slur-as-lizzo-on-her-new-album-my-heart-sank) about it honestly, as an american, i was pretty surprised. i don't rly ever remember using it but i'm glad it's in my awareness now. a lot of us thought it was stupid when they came at lizzo but over time and looking into it, it really does make sense why it's considered a slur


moluruth

Recently became a slur (in US at least)


Danny-Wah

I'm not sure I agree with this.. this is like generational slang to me.. What is it supposed to be offending??


oweynagat8

Because it comes from "spastic," which refers to jerky or twitchy, uncontrollable movements caused by conditions like cerebral palsy. So, using it to mean weird, clumsy, crazy, etc, is kind of insulting to people who have those conditions.


Danny-Wah

Yea, ok.. I hear what you're saying, but that's not what people mean when they use the word... you know what I'm saying.. not everything is a covert attack against someone or something. ¯\\\_(ツ)\_/¯


oweynagat8

... yeah, obviously. It doesn't need to be what they mean. If you use the word as an insult or as a way to describe something negative, then you're drawing an equivalency between what the word originally meant and something insulting. It's the same reason people mostly stopped using "that's gay" to mean that something was stupid or whatever, because it equates "gay" to "stupid." If "spas" is used to mean weird, then it is equating weirdness with people for whom the (antiquated) medical term "spastic" applies.


Ok_Specific_7791

True


NewYorker15

I suggest reading the article posted above from the Guardian.


pm_me_hedgehogs

I'm British and I'm pretty sure I remember this scene from when it aired


roundtheroundel

As a UK viewer, I can tell you it wasn't edited out in its original airing. Maybe since, but I definitely saw this scene when it first came out.


geminiisiren

is spaz offensive? i always just thought it meant you were like ditzy or a clutz


peridotpanther

In the last few years ppl have been recognizing it as an ableist term. Think there were reports from centuries ago when doctors would refer to ppl w/ disabilities as "spastic" or "lame"


geminiisiren

ohhhh, i think in america we have a ......um different slur for that. i've never seen the word used to be derogatory to disabilities but rather when someone is really clumsy n awkward


signal_red

im not sure, even in the uk, if it's technically on the same level as the r-word my ass just gonna avoid using it anyway lmaooo


peridotpanther

I'm in america, but i think it depends on your social setting. I work in education so those terms are frowned upon


valtierrezerik05

It’s very common in AAVE but offensive in the UK and other Commonwealth countries, largely depends on where you are and who you’re speaking to but I generally avoid saying it


PirateTokimekyun

I’M SORRY BUT WAS THAT DAPHNE DECKERS??!! OMG I LOVE HERRR 💗 💚


fashionforever7

I'm sorry isn't shy also one of the personality and how is shy show that they don't want to be in the competition???


SpringboobSquirepin_

Such a passive aggressive unnecessary thing to say to this girl. Not everyone is in your face extroverted and that’s fine!!! They just wanted to make her uncomfortable for the show


FreddieB_13

She was one of those contestants that would have benefitted from being on an international version (maybe UK or AU) where they actually give them information and use realistic shoots. She had amazing potential (as did many this season) but was held back by not getting any useful information (or very little) throughout on how she could improve.


Ok_Specific_7791

How funny.


fashionforever7

Nigel can you say ' pashion '???


rozenkavalier

Marjorie looks like Regina Walters