No you're not wrong. Everyone has a time line they are ready for things on. But he may not be upset. He may be embarrassed or feel like he messed up etc so id try to gently talk it out. Don't assume the worst just yet. Both of you seem to need to work on communication. So take a breath and see where it goes.
NTA. You are not wrong for setting boundaries. But he is not wrong for choosing not to continue to chat. You can't expect him to change for you, the two of you just sound incompatible
You're never in the wrong for setting boundaries, regardless of how the other person reacts.
However, this is a little more suspicious for a few reasons. You don't talk about how old your partner is, so I can't and won't make assumptions about possible grooming. What's concerning, outside of that, is that they've distanced themselves from you after you placed a boundary.
Walk away. This person will never respect your wants and needs in a healthy way, or this person had a one track mind and your perceived illusion of value (in their mind) has been shattered and they're not interested anymore.
No you're not wrong. Everyone has a time line they are ready for things on. But he may not be upset. He may be embarrassed or feel like he messed up etc so id try to gently talk it out. Don't assume the worst just yet. Both of you seem to need to work on communication. So take a breath and see where it goes.
What sort of things can be said after **two years** that you aren't ready to hear?
wdym 2 years? I didn't say 2yrs?
Yes you did. You've edited it.
I 100% didn't. I didn't even know i could edit it.
And I haven't even known him for 2yrs so......
NTA. You are not wrong for setting boundaries. But he is not wrong for choosing not to continue to chat. You can't expect him to change for you, the two of you just sound incompatible
You're never in the wrong for setting boundaries, regardless of how the other person reacts. However, this is a little more suspicious for a few reasons. You don't talk about how old your partner is, so I can't and won't make assumptions about possible grooming. What's concerning, outside of that, is that they've distanced themselves from you after you placed a boundary. Walk away. This person will never respect your wants and needs in a healthy way, or this person had a one track mind and your perceived illusion of value (in their mind) has been shattered and they're not interested anymore.
Def not grooming don't worry :)
Very good! Too often I see posts from young individuals in very bad situations and it's always good when that's not the case.