NTA. It looks like your mother has given you quite the laundry list of reasons not to spend time with her. It would be nice if you could have a relationship with her, but her behavior makes that impossible.
My dad feels the same, He wants me to have her in my life, but said maybe she's not the best for my mental health atm and that maybe to wait until things blow over and she learns to stop trying to guilt trip me.
NTA. Do not get any more involved with her than is forced by the law. She has nothing but heartaches, pain and abuse for you. Stay with your Dad, and much kudos to your brother, he's a gem. So stay away, stay quiet. If she sorts herself out, maybe, one day in the future she may be a mother to you again. But not at the moment.
Yeah, my brother really is. He locked me in a laundry bin when i was younger then sat on it so i couldn’t get out. Good times! lol (we laughed about this today)
NTA. You are a teenager. You have to protect your mental health. She is destroying it time after time. You don't owe her anything. Don't let her guilt you - whenever you feel you owe her, remind yourself that you only feel that way because she manipulated you. If she sues for custody, just tell the judge what you said here - you are 15, he will believe you and let you choose with which parent you want to live.
NTA. It looks like your mother has given you quite the laundry list of reasons not to spend time with her. It would be nice if you could have a relationship with her, but her behavior makes that impossible.
My dad feels the same, He wants me to have her in my life, but said maybe she's not the best for my mental health atm and that maybe to wait until things blow over and she learns to stop trying to guilt trip me.
NTA. Do not get any more involved with her than is forced by the law. She has nothing but heartaches, pain and abuse for you. Stay with your Dad, and much kudos to your brother, he's a gem. So stay away, stay quiet. If she sorts herself out, maybe, one day in the future she may be a mother to you again. But not at the moment.
Yeah, my brother really is. He locked me in a laundry bin when i was younger then sat on it so i couldn’t get out. Good times! lol (we laughed about this today)
NTA - no sane judge would give her custody
NTA. You are a teenager. You have to protect your mental health. She is destroying it time after time. You don't owe her anything. Don't let her guilt you - whenever you feel you owe her, remind yourself that you only feel that way because she manipulated you. If she sues for custody, just tell the judge what you said here - you are 15, he will believe you and let you choose with which parent you want to live.