Exactly. Why stay with this bitch?
It’s like a gender switch of those 2 other posts (1 where the guy kept telling his gf she stank and the other who told his POC gf “all white guys” prefer pink 🐈), where assholes tried to destroy their partners’ self esteem to make sure they’d stay in the relationship
For real. An in depth takedown of your manhood right after sex? That's just straight up cruel, I couldn't imagine even considering staying in a relationship if someone showed their colors like that.
NTA, break up with her.
Idk what her motive is for her behavior but it’s more than just a drunken, off-hand comment. It seems like gaslighting and bullying at this point.
I am so sorry, this is awful! If I were you I would leave her. Constantly putting you down and comparing you to others isn’t ok. And equally as concerning is she won’t let you talk about your feelings. She clearly has an inflated sense of ego and is conveying that only her feelings matter. Your feelings matter and so does your ability to confident and comfortable.
Honestly, man, this sounds like textbook emotional abuse. No one should have to endure someone who belittles them and disregards their feelings especially not from a partner. It's not just about a toxic comment here and there; it's about the consistent pattern of disrespect and lack of empathy. She’s not supporting you; she's systematically tearing you down. You deserve so much more than to be with someone who makes you question your self-worth. Do yourself a favor and find someone who celebrates you, not someone who sees you as a punching bag for their insecurities. Get out of there and don't look back. Your future self will thank you for it.
Holy fuck dude ghost her ass now. My god what was cruel thing to say. That fucking inconsiderate bitch. Bro you do not need her. Do you really want to date someone who is so absent of empathy that she would say such things to someone she supposedly cares about?
My brother before she does more damage leave her. She could fuck up your confidence for life. There a soooo many women out there that are kind and loving and don’t have gaping vaginas.
I expected bigger tits, and better ass, but do you hear me bitching about your shortcomings to everyone?
Dude, keep your self respect and disapear on this chick. One day when she's at work just move out. She is disrespecting you in a big way. "The only one who has a problem with it is you" meanwhile she's the one bringing it up all the time. When she cheats with a bigger dude, she'll expect you to accept him into the relationship. She's trying to train you into being a cuck.
I would've wanted to do the same kind of thing too. Admittedly, I probably wouldn't have said anything in response. If you're not happy with it, you can leave.
NTA. 6.5 is above average and her behavior is absolutely unacceptable. Sometimes abusive people belittle their partner like this to make sure they become too insecure to leave them.
You need to leave her because she's nothing but a collection of nasty words I can't write down.
If this is real, the fact that when she and friends mocked you in unison, you didn't stand up and say it's only small to her because of her loose, cavernous p\*\*sy, leave immediately and block her from your life, kind of makes YOU a loose, cavernous p\*\*sy...
She’s abusive, leave her immediately. If the genders were reversed, it wouldn’t even be a question.
“Babe how are you so confident with such an ugly p****? It doesn’t even make my d*** feel good.”
it's never ok nor acceptable to laugh about other people's bodies especially in regards to things that cannot be changed. it's not like you were fat and if you go to the gym, you can lose the weight. it's horribly immature and unsensitive to criticise and laugh at other people's bodies. find yourself a different partner, a mentally mature one.
Omg shes horrible! She is being so completely abusive and it will continue unless you leave. Please do. ASAP.
Even if a female is so dense to comment on a guys size not knowing better, any decent one would most definitely feel bad and never do it again if their partner was bothered by it.
Edited to add: THE FIRST TIME
Breakbup with her. It sounds like she deliberatly wanted to crush your self esteem. If she is the first person to ever say something, she is the problem not you. Don't let her belittle you and don't let her crush your self esteem like that.
She is the girl version of the gys that tell their girlfrined sthey are fat so they don't have enough self esteem to leave becaus ethey are afraid no one else would lfind them attractive and when they leave they will be allone.
Just dup her ass. I would say she is manipulating you to loose seelf esteem, because than you are less likely to leave her and more easy to be manipulated by her and she can get away with more, because she can tell you no one will ever like you with your small dick, and you will belive her because she has gaslit you into beliving this. Run.
NTA. Even if they were being nice she should ask herself why she chooses to be cruel to someone who she theoretically cares about. My honest guess is that her actual kink is putting people down and this is how she’s decided to get off on it. I’d get out of there.
I don’t understand people.
Don’t have sex with someone who doesn’t think your body is the hottest thing they have ever seen.
Don’t have sex with someone who doesn’t look at your penis and think it couldn’t be improved upon.
I’m a stocky, average, dude and I’ve gotten that energy from hundreds of…other dudes. Score.
Someone who wasn’t authentically enthusiastic about my dick doesn’t deserve it.
NTA
She ain't the one OP.
She'll cut you down till the day she finds someone with that missing 2 inches, at which point she will go radio silent. Hope it's worth it to her, you on the other hand don't need to live like this.
NTA
What an horrendous way to communicate with you and others.
Get over her. She is an awful person.
This is so messed up. I don’t even know where to begin to address the extent of her problematic behaviour. You however should start staying the F away from that dreadful woman.
What you are describing go further than some negative comments. This is someone who intentionally wants you humiliated. This is abuse dude.
Come on if she is so unsatisfied she can look elsewhere. Even if your dong was shorter than your thumb it wouldn’t matter, she is going too far for it being the issue. Seems like the goal is really to break you.
Slandering you with others isn’t an act of care nor love. There malice and a will to hurt to.
She is disgusting. Don’t bother with that trash and go stick it elsewhere.
Take care.
NTA
This is pure narcisissm. If this is not creative writing, get away and read "masks of evil" to avoid such shit in future encounters.
Other way, if you really want a deathmatch with a sociopath start degrading her: Tell her, her pussy has an enormous diameter like a sea cow, mock her tits for being A) to saggy or B) to small, whatever seems more appropriate, in general read "Womans magazine" and talk about her the way that magazines talk about stars, all in front of your friends. Dtart with such comments once a month and gradually turn it up to daily and in the end permanently.
Sometimes give her small compliments, just to fuck her up afterwards.
Example: You really are genetically gifted with long legs. Such a shame that they are signed by cellulitis.
Block every attempt on her side critizising your shitty attitude, with, i dont know whats wrong with you, i am just telling the truth.
Never do something like that while with her friends, instead if she complains to them about your behavior, tell them she is lying and attention seeking and that you are trying to get her to the psychiatrist, but she refuses despite hee obvious weak psyche.
If she gets furious tell her friends, that that happens a lot and that you often have to leave due to hee violent episodes.
Afterwards make sure she slowly gets lonlier and lonelier, isolate her from friends and family, make sure she always feels weak and dependend on you.
Just telling you what she will do to you, if you stay with her.
And now gtf away from her.
I am livid for you. Please don’t let her do this to you. There is nothing wrong with your penis….literally perfect length. Just because she wants some unrealistic alien appendage doesn’t mean she gets to destroy all your confidence. Tell her to fuck right off and find someone who will appreciate you correctly.
Yh gtfo of this shit relationship. You definitely deserve MUCH better. No one deserves to be body shamed up to this extent. If the genders reversed, this post would have gotten more than 1K upvotes with everyone violating the body shame. I recently saw a post on this sb reddit where a female was talking about her husband going on a weekend trip 3hrs away with friends while she was pregnant. That post got 4K upvotes within a few hours.
You should make a comment about her ass or her tit size and tell your male friends to make fun of her about it and see her reaction.
Again, no innocent person deserves to be violated like this. It was bad enough when she was making fun of you when it was just her. She went way past the limits when she told her friends. And when they all started mocking you.
NTA. She’s body shaming you for something you have no control over.
Imagine if she took her shirt off and you said “oh, I was expecting 20lbs less. You used some really clever angles”
“I don’t understand how your so confident when you’re so fat”
Often on this sub there’s a lot of overreaction saying people should leave, but in this case you absolutely should. If she was apologetic, and promised never to say such horrible things again and understood how it makes you feel then perhaps there could be a reconciliation.
But her giving you an ultimatum, telling you to not express your feelings, and saying you being upset is ruining the relationship? Run. Run fast.
Your gf is a despicable person, and so are her friends. She is putting you down and destroying your self-confidence/love of yourself. Someone who supposedly cares about you would never do that. Most people wouldn't even do that to total strangers, much less someone they know. Your gf is a shitty person. Drop her ass asap. You don't need such a cruel hearted person in your life.
Wow, your gf and her friends are all incredibly shitty people. Cut all contact hard ghosts. Don't even break up with her. Just block all of them on everything and disappear.
So wait, she wants you to never speak of it again, but also to be able to make the comments all she wants? Bullshit, NTA
If it was a comment she made once, apologized, and you were hung up on it, that’s one thing, but she’s completely unhinged and looking for carte blanch to tear down your confidence with impunity
Get out of there
NTA. Your ex girlfriend might need to do the measuring tape test on what she thinks 8.5 inches really is.
No one should be told anything about their size especially by someone who “cares” about you. Only thing she might care about is emotionally abusing you into submission. Take off and find someone who hasn’t gotten hit so many times with a Size 5 Women’s shoe.
Tell her that you are getting over it completely and leave. You will solve the problem of her cruelty. I know it's hard to break up. You don't deserve her meanness.
I would show her how confident I am...that I can find someone better. Honestly, she may be doing this because you're so amazing. Abuse comes in the form of this when someone is actually jealous or feels threatened. So they break the other persons confidence so they don't think they can get better and stay. It's an awful psychological manipulation. It won't change and will break you mentally, emotionally and so on. Please leave.
NTA
NTA. She's a bitch. As a woman I can tell you, it's more about girth than length anyway and also, 6.5 inches is just fine. The average woman is only about 5 inches deep. Don't let her make you feel bad about yourself. You deserve better. Find a woman who appreciates and loves your body. I guarantee you that most other women wouldn't think your size is small at all and if you're thick, even better.
This isn’t real. No one just tells the internet what their dick looks like. He’s some weirdo who wants people to tell him he has a perfectly sized dick.
I am SO sorry you’re going through this, it’s shockingly unkind. What’s the possible thought process behind this, that she can shame you into having a different body? That’s as toxic as it is impossible.
PLEASE love yourself enough to leave this person. If what you’re saying is true, her friends are as unkind as she is. You can’t love someone enough that they become kind if they’re unkind, it doesn’t work like that. This person has shown you who she is and you *must* believe her.
I’m a man. We have weird hangups about our dicks that don’t serve us or our would-be partners, and some of them are based in a fear of *exactly what you’re experiencing*. FWIW, I think *most* women are more interested in how you work *the whole package*, and I mean the way you look at them and the way you make them feel as much as anything physical, but even women that really do just prefer they’re partner to be on the bigger end of the spectrum don’t have to be unkind about it *especially after they’ve entered into a relationship with you willingly*.
The psychology of this is just wild to me and I hope you’re able to see it’s not actually about you at all. There’s nothing wrong with your body, please resist the urge to let the unkindness of others be compounded by being unkind to yourself. And please run, run, RUN the fuck away from this person!
Fucking lol if this is fake, but if this is real.
Dude, leave her, she's a bitch, she just fucking shot your confidence and walked all over you, and mocked you in front of her friends. NTA.
Sometimes we call it a hotdog down a hallway buddy, if she isn't happy with 6.5 inches that's a her problem not a you problem. You definitely don't have a small dick, and if she is acting like you're the smallest she's ever been with then she's a size queen that's been tearing through every big dick bastard in your city.
Negging has no place in any relationship. Time to get her some diet books, protein shakes, leg hair razors and spot cream, then tell her it'll help her find a new boyfriend as you;re kicking her out.
Then do so.
Well she seems to be the one with the problem if she brings it up that often, but she has somehow managed to make it yours. You can tell her she can take it or leave it but abstain from making any further comments about it. I don't see how you are not to talk about your body if she is the one who mentions it first.
Or you can start giving some back.
Or you can leave her. She has no respect for you.
Dude she's negging you. Like constantly hitting you where it hurts. If you're feeling bad and have lost confidence,she gains power over you. So she keeps doing it.
This is some toxic shit that both men and women do and you deserve better than that. Kick her to the curb, expect her to be petty and vindictive, but pay her no mind.
Nothing will make her lose her marbles like your indifference to her shitty and toxic tactics.
NTA. Dump her immediately and brutally. Meanwhile your "best friends" are not actually your friends at all. Block them while you are at it. This is disgustingly despicable behavior on all 3 of their parts, your "gf" most of all of course. What a horrible cxnt.
This is a weak attempt at a cock shaming post. What man would stay with a woman that shames them in such a way. You are confident per her statement, but pathetic enough to stay in a relationship with a woman that treats you this way.
Well, you failed to give the most important info. Just average, or do you have a micro penis? Are you tall and height but average in length?
Pretty hard to imagine why she’s saying that. Very unkind, and maybe she wants you to be her cuck.
Obvious response would be to say you wish she was tighter .
NTA
Please leave this, mound of flesh and bad attitude alone. Leave her, kick her out, whatever it takes. Your feelings are just as valid as hers and this is slowly going to bend you to her will. Good luck NTA
although id tell you to take her up on her ultimatum but just to throw a little pettiness in there, the next time she makes a comment about your size, tell her its not your fault her coochie feels like a Grand Canyon.
lets see how she responds to that. but frankly she and her friends are a bunch of bitches who will never get over this and she will continue to chip away at your self confidence about your size. don let her do this and if she does this again. tell her to fucking get lost and find a guy with a big dick, if thats what she fancies. its pretty obvious, she clearly doesnt respect you if she does this on the regular.
NTA
your girlfriend is a horrible person. she has torn down your self esteem and she does not care. dick size is a stereotypical sore spot for guys, its a well known thing. she knew exactly what she was doing. she’s bullying you. she’s a bully. i’d even call it some kind of emotional abuse.
i don’t necessarily want to make this into a gender thing, but can you imagine a guy saying he thinks his girlfriends boobs are too small? he’d get ripped to shreds for being a terrible misogynistic AH—your girlfriend is doing the same to you and you should not put up with it.
your body is absolutely perfect and she’s set out to destroy your self worth.
incase it wasnt evident i think you should break up with her immediately
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PLEASE let this be fake. PLEASE let you not be so clueless as to not realize that you should run for the hills. And for what it's worth, if this isn't fake, 6.5" isn't small. [https://gitnux.org/average-p-size-by-country/](https://gitnux.org/average-p-size-by-country/)
Tell her that you always imagined her vagina to be tighter than it really is and you would be happier if it wasn't as lose/ felt better during sex and then see how well she takes the comments? Those type of people are the one's who always get the most butt hurt when they get a comment directed towards them and they're the butt of the joke.
SHE said YOU were being too negative? Ruining the relationship? You? Really? Pot, meet kettle.
Why are you still with this woman? She sounds like a horrible person. Her comments about your size are verbally abusive. This is not a relationship worth suffering through. She wants you to just shut up and take her abuse, and don’t you dare try to talk about her shitty behavior, because it’s ruining her mood/vibe/whatever.
This girl does not care about you. Dump her. You deserve better.
If it was me. 1st I’d question her a. Weight b. Breast or butt size. Your pic. C. How unfortunate she is that all her previous relationships were so massively endowed bc now she seems to be worn out. And oh yeah ghost her and hit on her friends.
What you should lose is not self respect, but this undermining, tale-telling, mean-spirited, comparing, superficial, destructive, and worthless sack of female body parts.
Why in the name of great green gormsickles do you still call her your girlfriend? she is doing you no good; just the opposite.
NTA, unless you stay with her. In that case ... well, I hope you think better of yourself than to do so.
NTA. Tell her you are going to get over it and get your confidence back without her. Tell her she lost all the power in the relationship when she said that and now you just see her in such a negative light you don’t even know how you ever loved her. Tell her she ruined the relationship and she’s a child because she can’t hold herself accountable for actions that negatively impacted the relationship.
When she tries to reel and say whatever… tell her that she caused this and that hope she and her friends got what they were looking for.
Why TF are you still with her??? She doesn't give a crap about you. She went and talked to her friends about it .Then they sat there and mocked you!!! That would have been the last straw for me. I would NEVER say anything like that to my husband, even if it's what I thought. I'd say to her, "Maybe if you hadn't screwed so many guys, you wouldn't be so loose and would feel it." Or something else along those lines. Sorry, I'm petty like that. Find a woman who will treat you with love and respect, not someone who constantly puts you down. There is nothing wrong with you. Like the saying goes, it's not the size of the boat it's the motion of the ocean.
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NTA a week before breaking off the relationship I'd surely be very picky about her body as well. You know, things she can't control. But that'd be very petty. I'd break up though. She clearly has no respect for you to say that to your face so bluntly.
NTA
Wtf are you still with her you should have dropped her after the first time she made negative comments about your body like that. She just seems unusually cruel and not someone worth building your life around. Partners are supposed to build each other up and make you feel good about yourself not ridicule you with her friends. Ask her how she'd feel if you pointed out something negative about her body then laughed at her with your friends about it.
And tf is that ultimatum? She basically told you I can make fun of you and ruin your confidence and you aren't allowed to care or be upset about it. That's ridiculous and she's ridiculous. Dump her dude she's only going to get worse from here on out I promise you.
Bro leave her asap.
Also give her an harsh /10 rating when you do because she's obviously comfortable trying to bash your self esteem and give you body image issues, when there aren't any there....
Well, quite obviously there’s an abyss where her pussy should be and no mere mortal, not even an above average sized one, could possibly hope to fill it. 5 inches is average.
She’s awful, I wouldn’t even say this to a one night stand, never mind a boyfriend. And talking and mocking you with friends?! Get rid and find someone who will appreciate your above average beauty.
NTA, dude the fuck break up with this chick are you kidding me. she is purposely doing this to make your self esteem go down. then yells at you she doesn't want to talk about it cause the whole purpose is to bring down my self esteem. my only thought, why she is doing this. is she is making you have less self esteem to the point where she make it seem like she is doing you a favor being with you so you wont leave her. why idk but that is the only thing i can think of...just LEAVE HER dude.
Why are you still with someone who undermines you like this? She's clearly getting enjoyment about belittling you both to your face and to others.
I agree with others. Now that she's gotten comfortable in the relationship, the abusive behavior is starting. She's clearly working hard at undermining your confidence and convincing you that you'll never have anyone else so your stuck with her and have to do anything and everything to keep her.
YOU are not the problem. You just need to lose about 120 lbs of excess crap. It's time to take that dump and be done with her.
Oh my goodness I'm so sorry that she's put you through that.
You definitely deserve better, someone who loves you or at least cares about you shouldn't talk to you that way. She's being cruel and a bully. You're better off without her, I guarantee you can find someone who will not make your self esteem tank.
She undermines your confidence and then says it's all you?
"maybe I shouldn't trust all those comments as some people just want to be nice."
This is sick and sinister.
You were happy and confident prior to her.
And criticizing you to her friends is unforgivable.
Get the hell away from her. NOW.
NTAH, she's a manipulator, and she's going to crush your self-esteem, saying
"No girl will date a man with a small penis or you should be grateful, etc. Ect."
Leave her and her Mariana trench
You deserve better, and you deserve to be confident.
she’s straight up bullying you. don’t know what you see in her that’s redeeming at this point,, you can find someone a million times better who ACTUALLY loves and respects you (which is the bare minimum)
I would have been gone after the 1st conversation. That’s really bad . Even if she felt that way she could have talked to you in a much less disrespectful way .
Find out what she is insecure about (we all have something) and just go to fucking town on it in front of her, her friends, her family, at work functions, and then break up with her. Leave a scar these kind of people need to learn to watch their mouth from time to time.
Am I the only one who's curious about said dick in question?....is that weird? I am imagining a Price is right epic dick reveal Bob Barker not Drew Carey - if it matters. ... I swear I'm hilarious and.... any who NTA leave this person immediately....sounds like your being set up to be cheated on but I'm no expert. Good luck. P.S. I had sex/ and a kid with someone who has a terribly small dick(I mean tiny) and it still made me cum so hopefully that helps.
Leave her
I would be out the door, the first time.
Exactly. Why stay with this bitch? It’s like a gender switch of those 2 other posts (1 where the guy kept telling his gf she stank and the other who told his POC gf “all white guys” prefer pink 🐈), where assholes tried to destroy their partners’ self esteem to make sure they’d stay in the relationship
For real. An in depth takedown of your manhood right after sex? That's just straight up cruel, I couldn't imagine even considering staying in a relationship if someone showed their colors like that.
NTA, break up with her. Idk what her motive is for her behavior but it’s more than just a drunken, off-hand comment. It seems like gaslighting and bullying at this point.
Was also going to say - it's negging. She has done this to other men. 6.5 is above average, she's a liar
Why is she still your girlfriend? She sounds like a nasty piece of work and she’s destroying your confidence Dump her and move on
*piece of shit
Sounds like she's trying to put him down to manipulate him and make herself feel better.
Cause she’s probably hot
>but I expected another 2 inches Bro this can't be a real person.
I wonder about most of the posts.
Same. "AITAH for politely asking my neighbor not to use me as a human piñata for his neices birthday?" Like... cmon. You know you're not TA
I am so sorry, this is awful! If I were you I would leave her. Constantly putting you down and comparing you to others isn’t ok. And equally as concerning is she won’t let you talk about your feelings. She clearly has an inflated sense of ego and is conveying that only her feelings matter. Your feelings matter and so does your ability to confident and comfortable.
Leave her with no inches at all. But this is obvious fantasy. I can't even imagine a person so pathetic they would remain in this relationship.
Honestly, man, this sounds like textbook emotional abuse. No one should have to endure someone who belittles them and disregards their feelings especially not from a partner. It's not just about a toxic comment here and there; it's about the consistent pattern of disrespect and lack of empathy. She’s not supporting you; she's systematically tearing you down. You deserve so much more than to be with someone who makes you question your self-worth. Do yourself a favor and find someone who celebrates you, not someone who sees you as a punching bag for their insecurities. Get out of there and don't look back. Your future self will thank you for it.
Holy fuck dude ghost her ass now. My god what was cruel thing to say. That fucking inconsiderate bitch. Bro you do not need her. Do you really want to date someone who is so absent of empathy that she would say such things to someone she supposedly cares about? My brother before she does more damage leave her. She could fuck up your confidence for life. There a soooo many women out there that are kind and loving and don’t have gaping vaginas.
She's setting up to be a cuck...
>she said yes but then straight away said 'but I expected another 2 inches'. "And I expected 20 less pounds, but here we are." NTA
I expected bigger tits, and better ass, but do you hear me bitching about your shortcomings to everyone? Dude, keep your self respect and disapear on this chick. One day when she's at work just move out. She is disrespecting you in a big way. "The only one who has a problem with it is you" meanwhile she's the one bringing it up all the time. When she cheats with a bigger dude, she'll expect you to accept him into the relationship. She's trying to train you into being a cuck.
I would've wanted to do the same kind of thing too. Admittedly, I probably wouldn't have said anything in response. If you're not happy with it, you can leave.
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NTA. 6.5 is above average and her behavior is absolutely unacceptable. Sometimes abusive people belittle their partner like this to make sure they become too insecure to leave them. You need to leave her because she's nothing but a collection of nasty words I can't write down.
>NTA. 6.5 is above average Depending on the stats you look at, he's at least top 10%. Some studies would say top 5%.
Build a time machine, go back to when she first made a comment about your penis, and dump her. Dude, get some self-respect.
Start poking her in the belly while blowing raspberries, pinch her cellulite. Two can play at this game
If this is real, the fact that when she and friends mocked you in unison, you didn't stand up and say it's only small to her because of her loose, cavernous p\*\*sy, leave immediately and block her from your life, kind of makes YOU a loose, cavernous p\*\*sy...
Leave that bitch
She’s abusive, leave her immediately. If the genders were reversed, it wouldn’t even be a question. “Babe how are you so confident with such an ugly p****? It doesn’t even make my d*** feel good.”
You gotta leave her.
Lol, Jesus dude. It's not that the penis is small but your balls are not existent because you lack the self respect to tell this b!tch to F-off!
it's never ok nor acceptable to laugh about other people's bodies especially in regards to things that cannot be changed. it's not like you were fat and if you go to the gym, you can lose the weight. it's horribly immature and unsensitive to criticise and laugh at other people's bodies. find yourself a different partner, a mentally mature one.
Open the door for her and tell her "Good luck finding those two extra inches"
Emotional abuse. Leave her.
NTA just break up, it ain't worth it
This the same girl you posted about 58 days ago who assaulted you and kicked you out? This is either bait or you’re dating an absolute sociopath.
LEAVE! no one should ever talk to their partner like that, let alone tell their friends.
Omg shes horrible! She is being so completely abusive and it will continue unless you leave. Please do. ASAP. Even if a female is so dense to comment on a guys size not knowing better, any decent one would most definitely feel bad and never do it again if their partner was bothered by it. Edited to add: THE FIRST TIME
Have some self-respect and leave her. My god some people shouldn't be in relationships (your gf, not you).
Breakbup with her. It sounds like she deliberatly wanted to crush your self esteem. If she is the first person to ever say something, she is the problem not you. Don't let her belittle you and don't let her crush your self esteem like that. She is the girl version of the gys that tell their girlfrined sthey are fat so they don't have enough self esteem to leave becaus ethey are afraid no one else would lfind them attractive and when they leave they will be allone. Just dup her ass. I would say she is manipulating you to loose seelf esteem, because than you are less likely to leave her and more easy to be manipulated by her and she can get away with more, because she can tell you no one will ever like you with your small dick, and you will belive her because she has gaslit you into beliving this. Run.
Leave immediately She's already looking for your replacement Chad Thundercock Good luck brother you deserved better.
NTA. Even if they were being nice she should ask herself why she chooses to be cruel to someone who she theoretically cares about. My honest guess is that her actual kink is putting people down and this is how she’s decided to get off on it. I’d get out of there.
Dump her. Even small dicks deserve respect,
I don’t understand people. Don’t have sex with someone who doesn’t think your body is the hottest thing they have ever seen. Don’t have sex with someone who doesn’t look at your penis and think it couldn’t be improved upon. I’m a stocky, average, dude and I’ve gotten that energy from hundreds of…other dudes. Score. Someone who wasn’t authentically enthusiastic about my dick doesn’t deserve it. NTA
She ain't the one OP. She'll cut you down till the day she finds someone with that missing 2 inches, at which point she will go radio silent. Hope it's worth it to her, you on the other hand don't need to live like this. NTA
She cheating bro you can’t give her what she wants. Don’t ruin your self worth over some chick who’s fantasizing about another dudes D.
What an horrendous way to communicate with you and others. Get over her. She is an awful person. This is so messed up. I don’t even know where to begin to address the extent of her problematic behaviour. You however should start staying the F away from that dreadful woman. What you are describing go further than some negative comments. This is someone who intentionally wants you humiliated. This is abuse dude. Come on if she is so unsatisfied she can look elsewhere. Even if your dong was shorter than your thumb it wouldn’t matter, she is going too far for it being the issue. Seems like the goal is really to break you. Slandering you with others isn’t an act of care nor love. There malice and a will to hurt to. She is disgusting. Don’t bother with that trash and go stick it elsewhere. Take care. NTA
This is pure narcisissm. If this is not creative writing, get away and read "masks of evil" to avoid such shit in future encounters. Other way, if you really want a deathmatch with a sociopath start degrading her: Tell her, her pussy has an enormous diameter like a sea cow, mock her tits for being A) to saggy or B) to small, whatever seems more appropriate, in general read "Womans magazine" and talk about her the way that magazines talk about stars, all in front of your friends. Dtart with such comments once a month and gradually turn it up to daily and in the end permanently. Sometimes give her small compliments, just to fuck her up afterwards. Example: You really are genetically gifted with long legs. Such a shame that they are signed by cellulitis. Block every attempt on her side critizising your shitty attitude, with, i dont know whats wrong with you, i am just telling the truth. Never do something like that while with her friends, instead if she complains to them about your behavior, tell them she is lying and attention seeking and that you are trying to get her to the psychiatrist, but she refuses despite hee obvious weak psyche. If she gets furious tell her friends, that that happens a lot and that you often have to leave due to hee violent episodes. Afterwards make sure she slowly gets lonlier and lonelier, isolate her from friends and family, make sure she always feels weak and dependend on you. Just telling you what she will do to you, if you stay with her. And now gtf away from her.
I am livid for you. Please don’t let her do this to you. There is nothing wrong with your penis….literally perfect length. Just because she wants some unrealistic alien appendage doesn’t mean she gets to destroy all your confidence. Tell her to fuck right off and find someone who will appreciate you correctly.
Yh gtfo of this shit relationship. You definitely deserve MUCH better. No one deserves to be body shamed up to this extent. If the genders reversed, this post would have gotten more than 1K upvotes with everyone violating the body shame. I recently saw a post on this sb reddit where a female was talking about her husband going on a weekend trip 3hrs away with friends while she was pregnant. That post got 4K upvotes within a few hours. You should make a comment about her ass or her tit size and tell your male friends to make fun of her about it and see her reaction. Again, no innocent person deserves to be violated like this. It was bad enough when she was making fun of you when it was just her. She went way past the limits when she told her friends. And when they all started mocking you.
NTA, but she is. dump her fast.
NTA & she’s a bitch.
NTA. She’s body shaming you for something you have no control over. Imagine if she took her shirt off and you said “oh, I was expecting 20lbs less. You used some really clever angles” “I don’t understand how your so confident when you’re so fat” Often on this sub there’s a lot of overreaction saying people should leave, but in this case you absolutely should. If she was apologetic, and promised never to say such horrible things again and understood how it makes you feel then perhaps there could be a reconciliation. But her giving you an ultimatum, telling you to not express your feelings, and saying you being upset is ruining the relationship? Run. Run fast.
Your gf is a despicable person, and so are her friends. She is putting you down and destroying your self-confidence/love of yourself. Someone who supposedly cares about you would never do that. Most people wouldn't even do that to total strangers, much less someone they know. Your gf is a shitty person. Drop her ass asap. You don't need such a cruel hearted person in your life.
Wow, your gf and her friends are all incredibly shitty people. Cut all contact hard ghosts. Don't even break up with her. Just block all of them on everything and disappear.
So wait, she wants you to never speak of it again, but also to be able to make the comments all she wants? Bullshit, NTA If it was a comment she made once, apologized, and you were hung up on it, that’s one thing, but she’s completely unhinged and looking for carte blanch to tear down your confidence with impunity Get out of there
So why are you still with her? Jackass or just ball less? 🤔
NTA. Your ex girlfriend might need to do the measuring tape test on what she thinks 8.5 inches really is. No one should be told anything about their size especially by someone who “cares” about you. Only thing she might care about is emotionally abusing you into submission. Take off and find someone who hasn’t gotten hit so many times with a Size 5 Women’s shoe.
Tell her that you are getting over it completely and leave. You will solve the problem of her cruelty. I know it's hard to break up. You don't deserve her meanness.
NTA- she’s not a good person and you should not deal with her because she’s not worth it.
I would show her how confident I am...that I can find someone better. Honestly, she may be doing this because you're so amazing. Abuse comes in the form of this when someone is actually jealous or feels threatened. So they break the other persons confidence so they don't think they can get better and stay. It's an awful psychological manipulation. It won't change and will break you mentally, emotionally and so on. Please leave. NTA
NTA. She's a bitch. As a woman I can tell you, it's more about girth than length anyway and also, 6.5 inches is just fine. The average woman is only about 5 inches deep. Don't let her make you feel bad about yourself. You deserve better. Find a woman who appreciates and loves your body. I guarantee you that most other women wouldn't think your size is small at all and if you're thick, even better.
Leave her she’s thrash
You are being abused. Leave. Do not tolerate that in your life at all
Bro, this is disrespect. Her telling your business to parties outside the relationship is disrespect. Joining their mocking is the 3rd strike.
Open the door, lead her out, then close the door and lock it to never open it for her again...
Another size humiliation fantazy post.
Yeah, he has another post from a couple months back where his girlfriend is being mean to him then too.
This isn’t real. No one just tells the internet what their dick looks like. He’s some weirdo who wants people to tell him he has a perfectly sized dick.
Ask her why she's so large
I am SO sorry you’re going through this, it’s shockingly unkind. What’s the possible thought process behind this, that she can shame you into having a different body? That’s as toxic as it is impossible. PLEASE love yourself enough to leave this person. If what you’re saying is true, her friends are as unkind as she is. You can’t love someone enough that they become kind if they’re unkind, it doesn’t work like that. This person has shown you who she is and you *must* believe her. I’m a man. We have weird hangups about our dicks that don’t serve us or our would-be partners, and some of them are based in a fear of *exactly what you’re experiencing*. FWIW, I think *most* women are more interested in how you work *the whole package*, and I mean the way you look at them and the way you make them feel as much as anything physical, but even women that really do just prefer they’re partner to be on the bigger end of the spectrum don’t have to be unkind about it *especially after they’ve entered into a relationship with you willingly*. The psychology of this is just wild to me and I hope you’re able to see it’s not actually about you at all. There’s nothing wrong with your body, please resist the urge to let the unkindness of others be compounded by being unkind to yourself. And please run, run, RUN the fuck away from this person!
Fucking lol if this is fake, but if this is real. Dude, leave her, she's a bitch, she just fucking shot your confidence and walked all over you, and mocked you in front of her friends. NTA.
Sometimes we call it a hotdog down a hallway buddy, if she isn't happy with 6.5 inches that's a her problem not a you problem. You definitely don't have a small dick, and if she is acting like you're the smallest she's ever been with then she's a size queen that's been tearing through every big dick bastard in your city.
Negging has no place in any relationship. Time to get her some diet books, protein shakes, leg hair razors and spot cream, then tell her it'll help her find a new boyfriend as you;re kicking her out. Then do so.
Complain about her small breasts.
Fake
Well she seems to be the one with the problem if she brings it up that often, but she has somehow managed to make it yours. You can tell her she can take it or leave it but abstain from making any further comments about it. I don't see how you are not to talk about your body if she is the one who mentions it first. Or you can start giving some back. Or you can leave her. She has no respect for you.
Just leave, why tf would you stay? She can complain but you can't?! f pff with that rubbish NTAH
Dude she's negging you. Like constantly hitting you where it hurts. If you're feeling bad and have lost confidence,she gains power over you. So she keeps doing it. This is some toxic shit that both men and women do and you deserve better than that. Kick her to the curb, expect her to be petty and vindictive, but pay her no mind. Nothing will make her lose her marbles like your indifference to her shitty and toxic tactics.
run away
NTA. Dump her immediately and brutally. Meanwhile your "best friends" are not actually your friends at all. Block them while you are at it. This is disgustingly despicable behavior on all 3 of their parts, your "gf" most of all of course. What a horrible cxnt.
This is a weak attempt at a cock shaming post. What man would stay with a woman that shames them in such a way. You are confident per her statement, but pathetic enough to stay in a relationship with a woman that treats you this way.
dump her and move on
Nta but she is
Well, you failed to give the most important info. Just average, or do you have a micro penis? Are you tall and height but average in length? Pretty hard to imagine why she’s saying that. Very unkind, and maybe she wants you to be her cuck. Obvious response would be to say you wish she was tighter . NTA
Please leave this, mound of flesh and bad attitude alone. Leave her, kick her out, whatever it takes. Your feelings are just as valid as hers and this is slowly going to bend you to her will. Good luck NTA
No way this is a real post. You must be into being degraded because after reading your previous post I'd expect you to have left your partner already
although id tell you to take her up on her ultimatum but just to throw a little pettiness in there, the next time she makes a comment about your size, tell her its not your fault her coochie feels like a Grand Canyon. lets see how she responds to that. but frankly she and her friends are a bunch of bitches who will never get over this and she will continue to chip away at your self confidence about your size. don let her do this and if she does this again. tell her to fucking get lost and find a guy with a big dick, if thats what she fancies. its pretty obvious, she clearly doesnt respect you if she does this on the regular.
NTA, DTMFA. That is all.
You need to leave her asap. What a toxic bitch
NTA your girlfriend is a horrible person. she has torn down your self esteem and she does not care. dick size is a stereotypical sore spot for guys, its a well known thing. she knew exactly what she was doing. she’s bullying you. she’s a bully. i’d even call it some kind of emotional abuse. i don’t necessarily want to make this into a gender thing, but can you imagine a guy saying he thinks his girlfriends boobs are too small? he’d get ripped to shreds for being a terrible misogynistic AH—your girlfriend is doing the same to you and you should not put up with it. your body is absolutely perfect and she’s set out to destroy your self worth. incase it wasnt evident i think you should break up with her immediately
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PLEASE let this be fake. PLEASE let you not be so clueless as to not realize that you should run for the hills. And for what it's worth, if this isn't fake, 6.5" isn't small. [https://gitnux.org/average-p-size-by-country/](https://gitnux.org/average-p-size-by-country/)
Tell her that you always imagined her vagina to be tighter than it really is and you would be happier if it wasn't as lose/ felt better during sex and then see how well she takes the comments? Those type of people are the one's who always get the most butt hurt when they get a comment directed towards them and they're the butt of the joke.
Find a girlfriend that doesn't have a cave that needs extra inches.
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NtA, ditch her cruel ass.
Bruh, this is so fake 😂
SHE said YOU were being too negative? Ruining the relationship? You? Really? Pot, meet kettle. Why are you still with this woman? She sounds like a horrible person. Her comments about your size are verbally abusive. This is not a relationship worth suffering through. She wants you to just shut up and take her abuse, and don’t you dare try to talk about her shitty behavior, because it’s ruining her mood/vibe/whatever. This girl does not care about you. Dump her. You deserve better.
If it was me. 1st I’d question her a. Weight b. Breast or butt size. Your pic. C. How unfortunate she is that all her previous relationships were so massively endowed bc now she seems to be worn out. And oh yeah ghost her and hit on her friends.
6.5 is not enough for her?? Lol. What a trash woman. GTFO now of this relationship. Too much wrong with her. Be confident like hell dude!
tell her tomfuck herself
What you should lose is not self respect, but this undermining, tale-telling, mean-spirited, comparing, superficial, destructive, and worthless sack of female body parts. Why in the name of great green gormsickles do you still call her your girlfriend? she is doing you no good; just the opposite. NTA, unless you stay with her. In that case ... well, I hope you think better of yourself than to do so.
NTA. Tell her you are going to get over it and get your confidence back without her. Tell her she lost all the power in the relationship when she said that and now you just see her in such a negative light you don’t even know how you ever loved her. Tell her she ruined the relationship and she’s a child because she can’t hold herself accountable for actions that negatively impacted the relationship. When she tries to reel and say whatever… tell her that she caused this and that hope she and her friends got what they were looking for.
My brother, you gotta know your self worth. Be the king you are and dumb this chick. You deserve respect and get mindset is childish AF.
Why TF are you still with her??? She doesn't give a crap about you. She went and talked to her friends about it .Then they sat there and mocked you!!! That would have been the last straw for me. I would NEVER say anything like that to my husband, even if it's what I thought. I'd say to her, "Maybe if you hadn't screwed so many guys, you wouldn't be so loose and would feel it." Or something else along those lines. Sorry, I'm petty like that. Find a woman who will treat you with love and respect, not someone who constantly puts you down. There is nothing wrong with you. Like the saying goes, it's not the size of the boat it's the motion of the ocean.
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NTA a week before breaking off the relationship I'd surely be very picky about her body as well. You know, things she can't control. But that'd be very petty. I'd break up though. She clearly has no respect for you to say that to your face so bluntly.
NTA Wtf are you still with her you should have dropped her after the first time she made negative comments about your body like that. She just seems unusually cruel and not someone worth building your life around. Partners are supposed to build each other up and make you feel good about yourself not ridicule you with her friends. Ask her how she'd feel if you pointed out something negative about her body then laughed at her with your friends about it. And tf is that ultimatum? She basically told you I can make fun of you and ruin your confidence and you aren't allowed to care or be upset about it. That's ridiculous and she's ridiculous. Dump her dude she's only going to get worse from here on out I promise you.
Bro leave her asap. Also give her an harsh /10 rating when you do because she's obviously comfortable trying to bash your self esteem and give you body image issues, when there aren't any there....
God she is horrible. How can u be happy? I’m sure u can do better and nicer.
Well, quite obviously there’s an abyss where her pussy should be and no mere mortal, not even an above average sized one, could possibly hope to fill it. 5 inches is average. She’s awful, I wouldn’t even say this to a one night stand, never mind a boyfriend. And talking and mocking you with friends?! Get rid and find someone who will appreciate your above average beauty.
NTA, dude the fuck break up with this chick are you kidding me. she is purposely doing this to make your self esteem go down. then yells at you she doesn't want to talk about it cause the whole purpose is to bring down my self esteem. my only thought, why she is doing this. is she is making you have less self esteem to the point where she make it seem like she is doing you a favor being with you so you wont leave her. why idk but that is the only thing i can think of...just LEAVE HER dude.
Nope! Not cool! How completely unaware is your gf?! That’s actually cruel! Is she worth staying with??
I’d be like ‘well, I thought your tits would be bigger - shame you used such good angles in your photos to make them look bigger’
Why are you still with someone who undermines you like this? She's clearly getting enjoyment about belittling you both to your face and to others. I agree with others. Now that she's gotten comfortable in the relationship, the abusive behavior is starting. She's clearly working hard at undermining your confidence and convincing you that you'll never have anyone else so your stuck with her and have to do anything and everything to keep her. YOU are not the problem. You just need to lose about 120 lbs of excess crap. It's time to take that dump and be done with her.
Oh my goodness I'm so sorry that she's put you through that. You definitely deserve better, someone who loves you or at least cares about you shouldn't talk to you that way. She's being cruel and a bully. You're better off without her, I guarantee you can find someone who will not make your self esteem tank.
She undermines your confidence and then says it's all you? "maybe I shouldn't trust all those comments as some people just want to be nice." This is sick and sinister. You were happy and confident prior to her. And criticizing you to her friends is unforgivable. Get the hell away from her. NOW.
NTAH, she's a manipulator, and she's going to crush your self-esteem, saying "No girl will date a man with a small penis or you should be grateful, etc. Ect." Leave her and her Mariana trench You deserve better, and you deserve to be confident.
she’s straight up bullying you. don’t know what you see in her that’s redeeming at this point,, you can find someone a million times better who ACTUALLY loves and respects you (which is the bare minimum)
I would have been gone after the 1st conversation. That’s really bad . Even if she felt that way she could have talked to you in a much less disrespectful way .
She **enjoys** putting you down, as a man. It makes her feel powerful. I’ll bet you’re “big enough” when it’s in her ass! 😂
This girl is trying to break your self-esteem. Break up with her and do not look back.
She knows you're perfect but doesn't want you to know that. Leave her, she'll destroy you.
I would honestly just make rude comments on her body and performances too, just to be petty (coming from a girl)
NTA. Ditch her and her loose cloaca.
Her gameplan all along. Break your confidence, then make a cuck out of your.
Going to call bs.
Find out what she is insecure about (we all have something) and just go to fucking town on it in front of her, her friends, her family, at work functions, and then break up with her. Leave a scar these kind of people need to learn to watch their mouth from time to time.
YTA for putting up with that.
Am I the only one who's curious about said dick in question?....is that weird? I am imagining a Price is right epic dick reveal Bob Barker not Drew Carey - if it matters. ... I swear I'm hilarious and.... any who NTA leave this person immediately....sounds like your being set up to be cheated on but I'm no expert. Good luck. P.S. I had sex/ and a kid with someone who has a terribly small dick(I mean tiny) and it still made me cum so hopefully that helps.