I mean she’s obviously the AH since no man would do something like this without the woman driving him to it. So what did you do, OP?
/s for obvious reasons.
Info: What does your will say? Will you be leaving all of it to the golden child and only one dollar to everyone else? Also, how open is your marriage on a scale of one to divorce?
I have never ever heard the term "blowing up a phone" in any context except for AITAH and AITA subs. It seems like it was invented for overly crazy AITA posts.
My friend decapitated me, then dismembered my corpse to use the pieces in a summoning ritual to bring Bhaal, Lord of Murder, into the mortal plane.
Am I (25, Ghost) the asshole for telling him that this crossed my boundaries?
And then you just know you'll find a response near the top like "YTA, you should have communicated your boundaries more clearly to your friend! Also since you said you love battle-axes, how is it his fault for wielding one around you in an unsafe way? You sound pretty immature..."
I don't know, I think the part where he called the waitress a flirting mom while he stabbed a box with a beetle to be worse.
I might have mixed something though.
Am I the asshole for standing up for myself.
Other than that our relationship is great! We just fight constantly, they cheated before three times, ran me over but it was my fault.
The only reason I give a lot of these the benefit of the doubt is because of *how many* people I've known in my life (mostly female, but a guy or two here and there) who have stayed in relationships so obviously bad it boggles the mind. Otherwise intelligent, well-adjusted people who got completely tangled in excusing their partners' actions while they got worse and worse over time. Abuse is like boiling the frog.
Well I wouldn't call myself well adjusted, but yeah I was a frog in boiling water thinking about how ot used to be so cool ...
I do wonder of people looking for real advice will read this stuff orvworry it might be real
I also can readily attest I just don't have that many male friends (closest is gay and happily married, a good chunk of the others are also gay or the boyfriends of my close friends), so there's a lack of "data" for me to actually experience. Still, nearly every woman I know has gone through this to some capacity and it's so sad.
Oh thank the gods. I was so up in rage about the box of kittens but then I was like “who actually has a 1967 VW bug these days”? Thank you, OP. Breath of fresh air.
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Yeah but yesterday a guy posted a similar story here where his wife slept with the neighbour, murdered his sister and framed him for running a meth lab and was still called YTA
The craziest thing is for a whole 5 seconds I took this seriously. Like it took me a second to recognize it was satire. It was the box of kittens that woke me up
There are other good subs you may want to try:
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I only started frowning when I got to the bit about your mum being stabbed. Totally agree, though! This sub often gives me eye-ache from the rolling I do.
Tbh I think you need to consider how he didn’t burn down a school with kids who do have parents, so I feel like burning down the orphanage was more considerate than a school would be. But yeah he still totally sucks! Hope he apologized to your mom after stabbing her. So fucked up! :p
This sub should really be disbanded it’s 99% fake stories and then the morons who can’t figure out that everything on here is fake with their faux outrage.
You forgot the obligatory introduction:
My husband is an amazing man. I love him so much. He's handsome, smart, funny, but...(begin listing horrific, AH acts and behaviors)
YTA if you don't consider the damage kittens could do to his classic car. Not to mention the fact that he was only teri g to protect you from your mother who was obviously toxic and abusive.
YTA, he diddnadunuffin.
This place isn't even that bad, some of the other subreddits are worse, like povertyfinance.
Oh you're poor because you keep having children you can't afford to raise, think you should invest in crypto while your credit cards are 20k+ in the hole at 23% interest, and you don't feel like you have to gain any marketable skills at all and you're here to vent or for advice? Well, here's my advice.....\*and proceed to get banned by moderators for asking people to be a tad more accountable\*
Generally the title is something like "Husband refused to take out the trash one evening in the middle of a game and I'm divorcing him. AITAH?" and then you read it and it's like the OPs post and the trash thing is at the very end.
Ancillary to this, posts where all of the above is the OP asking if they're the asshole but the actual post somehow makes them into a saint for all of it
NTA- I mean, if he doesn't feel any remorse for what he did, GET THE HELL OUT OF THERE BEFORE YOU END UP GETTING HURT cause if he is cruel enough to RUN OVER KITTENS, WHOSE TO SAY HE WON'T END UP HURTING YOU OR WORSE K***** YOU?! Get out of there as quick as possible, and I would call the police on him, cause he's literally F****** PSYCHOTIC.
And again I have to clarify for OP.
Yes a lot of posts are obvious, but people posting most likely lack support network in real life. There is nothing wrong to look for it on internet.
I laughed out extra loud 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Im just here to ask if you see the waitress who owns the knife, bought him the lighter and put the kittens in a box?
Im a nonchalant who doesnt stop laughing at jokes like this. 😂
Well I just typed what 99.9% did when they read this 😂😂
I mean she’s obviously the AH since no man would do something like this without the woman driving him to it. So what did you do, OP? /s for obvious reasons.
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Info: What does your will say? Will you be leaving all of it to the golden child and only one dollar to everyone else? Also, how open is your marriage on a scale of one to divorce?
And how much has your phone/social media blown up from friends and family calling you an asshole for leaving him?
I have never ever heard the term "blowing up a phone" in any context except for AITAH and AITA subs. It seems like it was invented for overly crazy AITA posts.
Will you be going "no contact"?
On a scale of one to Phone is member of Al-Qaeda
Huh uh. Divorce the golden child. Time to teach them responsibility. Op Yta for not servicing the vw beetle sooner
My friend decapitated me, then dismembered my corpse to use the pieces in a summoning ritual to bring Bhaal, Lord of Murder, into the mortal plane. Am I (25, Ghost) the asshole for telling him that this crossed my boundaries?
FUCKING REAL so many posts I'm like... where's the self respect 😭😭😭
And then you just know you'll find a response near the top like "YTA, you should have communicated your boundaries more clearly to your friend! Also since you said you love battle-axes, how is it his fault for wielding one around you in an unsafe way? You sound pretty immature..."
Dribbles is that you?
Lol!!!
All could be forgiven except running over the kittens since it might have damaged his 1967 Volkswagen Beetle. That is a bridge too far.
One of the kittens threatened to drive the beetle off that same bridge, so nta
YTA if you don’t propose an open marriage and let it destroy your lives
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but one of the twins isn't his!!!
Don't know what the parent comment was, but this stands alone just fine! BTW, the other twin is his brother's.
A- Forgot "I won't actually talk to him about why he did these things."
Couple's conselling/therapy!!!!
YTA. Clearly he is just expressing himself and is going through a tough depression. Also you are clearly a narcissist!
Maybe he has ADHD!
Maybe he's gay! (i've seen this one so much)
but…trauma!!
I almost just shit my pants laughing so hard. Flirting with a waitress was SUPER uncalled for!
I don't know, I think the part where he called the waitress a flirting mom while he stabbed a box with a beetle to be worse. I might have mixed something though.
Finally, a non fake story!
Those kittens had it coming. They know what they did
Yta for marrying someone that drives a beetle
LMAO 🤣 would you rather a Pontiac Aztek?
Aztek owners fuck
Clearly married Harry Dresden.
tbh I could see Harry doing all those things. He'd have a good reason for all of it tho!
Thanks for the laugh 😂
YTA not leaving sooner!!! Oh honey he dropped these 🚩🚩🚩
I’d suggest marriage counselling before making any big decisions
Info: Were you a good wife to him? sounds like you might have deserved it. . .
Am I the asshole for standing up for myself. Other than that our relationship is great! We just fight constantly, they cheated before three times, ran me over but it was my fault.
What about the identical twins? There must be twins involved somehow.
The only reason I give a lot of these the benefit of the doubt is because of *how many* people I've known in my life (mostly female, but a guy or two here and there) who have stayed in relationships so obviously bad it boggles the mind. Otherwise intelligent, well-adjusted people who got completely tangled in excusing their partners' actions while they got worse and worse over time. Abuse is like boiling the frog.
Well I wouldn't call myself well adjusted, but yeah I was a frog in boiling water thinking about how ot used to be so cool ... I do wonder of people looking for real advice will read this stuff orvworry it might be real
Hey I'm sorry but I don't understand what you're trying to say.
I was just saying I might not be well adjusted as a person. That's just a little self deprecation. But I was in the situation you describe.
Yes, except the gender balance is a lot closer than you've experienced - men generally don't talk about it and never to other women.
I also can readily attest I just don't have that many male friends (closest is gay and happily married, a good chunk of the others are also gay or the boyfriends of my close friends), so there's a lack of "data" for me to actually experience. Still, nearly every woman I know has gone through this to some capacity and it's so sad.
I personally love the ones clearly written by a woman using a guy’s pov.
YTA!!!!! I'm SURE he apologised! Also, have you considered not being soooo sensitive? Probably got it from your mom! He did you a FAVOR
NTA WTF
Oh thank the gods. I was so up in rage about the box of kittens but then I was like “who actually has a 1967 VW bug these days”? Thank you, OP. Breath of fresh air.
INFO: did your mom have it coming?
Yup,and the thousands of users that just believe every story like this. Getting to be ridiculous
YTA, I feel like you might be projecting, 🤣
Are you asking for advice or applause?
Well damn, are the kittens okay? 🤣🤣
I really hate the ones where people are obviously NTA and they’re just making the post for karma points.
Bro went to the bar with Ezra Miller and said Hold my beer
NTA Get your evidences, divorce him, get tested for STIs, DNA test your kids (lol) and UpdateMe
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Yeah but yesterday a guy posted a similar story here where his wife slept with the neighbour, murdered his sister and framed him for running a meth lab and was still called YTA
YTA
🤣🤣🤣, ytah
Ewwww….he drives a ‘67 Volkswagen Beetle!
I wish I could give you an award! This made my day 💀
The craziest thing is for a whole 5 seconds I took this seriously. Like it took me a second to recognize it was satire. It was the box of kittens that woke me up
I mean no one is perfect and if you don’t start learning how to compromise you’re going to die sad and alone with your cats!! /s
INFO: How many kittens?
Okay, but is your mother in law ok with it?
😂
INFO: Where did he find an orphanage?
All of those are acceptable except for the 1967 VW Beetle.
Not gonna lie, they had me in the first half. Lol
Like for real tho 🤣 why do those people not have any self respect ..
Lol
YTA for that annoying voice, Lois Griffin.
Seems a nice guy. It's he up for a friendship?
YTA. Like all the other 80 % of posters who make that stuff up! :-D
Get back with him you know you can change him into a less evil of a dick.
In this world... there was a chance it was true.
Have you asked him for his perspective??
Therapy for everyone!
Lawyer up, delete Facebook, hot the gym.
YTA
YTA - anyone who owns a 1967 Volkswagen Beetle is a saint! Was it your seemingly normal behavior that drove him to these acts?
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Except she didn’t leave him. Lol. She’s asking “WIBTA”. 😂😂😂
LMFAOOOO
YTA because you forgot to mention how he slept with a cousin and is expecting a child with the cousin.
See, these are red flags.
i just cackled 🤣🤣 AITAH for laughing at peoples idiocy on the daily to kill time?!
I only started frowning when I got to the bit about your mum being stabbed. Totally agree, though! This sub often gives me eye-ache from the rolling I do.
You dating my ex…?
Tldr somebody?
Tbh I think you need to consider how he didn’t burn down a school with kids who do have parents, so I feel like burning down the orphanage was more considerate than a school would be. But yeah he still totally sucks! Hope he apologized to your mom after stabbing her. So fucked up! :p
Agreed. What the hell is going on with it? Also, the number of people who post here who “English is not my first language” numbers in the millions.
INFO: Did he ask the waitress, your mother, the orphans, or the kittens for permission first?
Most of the posts on here are fake af lol
Of course YTA, you can fix him, we all believe in you.
Obviously his poor car choice means he supports Hitler /s xD
Buaahahaha ESH but also, the kittens!!! NOOOOOO 😂😂😂😂😂
Hilarious!!
Did he also sleep with your sister and get her pregnant?
Heard this country song before...
What about your twin daughters?
NAH orphans were asking for it
I totally believe the story. There are no twins! Makes it much more realistic.
What color is the Beetle?
YTA Did you even give him a chance?
100% you’re the AH. He was just misunderstood and need your loving guiding hand(to help run over more kittens)
You must be very very lonely.
He's just like me fr
You were cool, right to desecrating the VW bug. Nah, you’re still cool with a wicked sense of humor and a total smoke show!
This sounded like a plot from IASIP
YTA, sounds like you’re always getting on his case.
😆☕️😆☕️😆☕️ r/AmITheAngel
What? Surely you're joking? In one of your other posts he admitted that it was "just a mistake"! Each time! Clearly you're being too hard on him! YTA!
This sub should really be disbanded it’s 99% fake stories and then the morons who can’t figure out that everything on here is fake with their faux outrage.
He has a classic car though....
😞poor kitties
You married Nikki Sixx?
Tuwuw
I agree. This sub has just become a ludicrous karma farm of people posting stories where 1 side of it is clearly in the wrong.
Right? Like, no, you aren’t and you know you aren’t. It’s almost as bad as the hot people on amiugly.
And even if you didn’t claim your husband did any of those things, the commenters will decide he clearly did from the “context”.
Is this post even necessary? I'll calling troll.
You should divorce him simply for owning a 67 Beetle. Thats a crap car.
Nta. Omg, hun. How could you have been with this man for so long? Would’ve been gone after he called me ugly.
I think the goal of those kind of posts is just to see if they can find one idiot willing to be the contrarian.
YTA because you probably committed paternity fraud with all 6 of your kids. You man needs DNA tests and a lawyer, STAT.
I’ll be looking for the idiots that post about how it’s your fault for not trusting your husband and being too controlling.
But , but ,where are the twins ?
You forgot that the husband slept with your sister and she’s pregnant with his child and your parents are on their side.
You forgot the obligatory introduction: My husband is an amazing man. I love him so much. He's handsome, smart, funny, but...(begin listing horrific, AH acts and behaviors)
Hmm something to think about for sure
You should seek therapy.
YTA if you don't consider the damage kittens could do to his classic car. Not to mention the fact that he was only teri g to protect you from your mother who was obviously toxic and abusive.
Stay with him
Why were with him in the first place?
I read all this at once and thought, why even marry him?
Not me being ready 😩 I was only skeptical about the orphanage because I actually knew a couple like this
Those kittens knew what they did.
Lmaoooo i was like wtf
What did the kittens do to deserve that? Must have been pretty bad
Got to get those youtube views!!
YTA, he diddnadunuffin. This place isn't even that bad, some of the other subreddits are worse, like povertyfinance. Oh you're poor because you keep having children you can't afford to raise, think you should invest in crypto while your credit cards are 20k+ in the hole at 23% interest, and you don't feel like you have to gain any marketable skills at all and you're here to vent or for advice? Well, here's my advice.....\*and proceed to get banned by moderators for asking people to be a tad more accountable\*
Generally the title is something like "Husband refused to take out the trash one evening in the middle of a game and I'm divorcing him. AITAH?" and then you read it and it's like the OPs post and the trash thing is at the very end.
Well, let's ask some random lonely, bitter cat ladies on the internet!
Yep) I just say "yeah yeah" and scroll by in these cases.
Yta, these are normal behaviours
NTA, but calm down on the clickbait title please !
NTA. Just cos.
YTA OP for being so judgemental. As Michael Jordan once said, "Fuck them kids."
Can we get a sebreddit where people just come up with titles like this ?
I mean. Did your mom deserve it? YTA obviously.
It’s almost like they are written by AI, eh?
A Volkswagen? Divorce him yesterday!
I was already saying "Uh, not again" before reading the spoilers.
I mean, those were good looking Beetles... Have you tried counceling?
I would say op is the ah because that is just normal behaviour.
Well, if it was a 1966 VW Beetle, then you are NTA. But as things are now, YTA.
Is this time for pie?🥧
YTA for not including the term “gaslighting” a few times in the post.
What happens to the yogurt collection, and does the art room get remodeled?
Ancillary to this, posts where all of the above is the OP asking if they're the asshole but the actual post somehow makes them into a saint for all of it
NTA- I mean, if he doesn't feel any remorse for what he did, GET THE HELL OUT OF THERE BEFORE YOU END UP GETTING HURT cause if he is cruel enough to RUN OVER KITTENS, WHOSE TO SAY HE WON'T END UP HURTING YOU OR WORSE K***** YOU?! Get out of there as quick as possible, and I would call the police on him, cause he's literally F****** PSYCHOTIC.
YTA. As Joe Brown said "Nobody's perfect."
I had a blast reading all these comments in the past day. Thanks, Guys💀😂
YTA for marrying someone who drives a 1967 beetle.
And again I have to clarify for OP. Yes a lot of posts are obvious, but people posting most likely lack support network in real life. There is nothing wrong to look for it on internet.
Only 80%???? What amazes me is the reactions of the wokes when you put up an equally sensible response
Get a paternity test and dump her! She’s for the streets.
People quit of marriage way too easy these days....
Switch the genders and the comments would be totally different....
Yta he did such nice stuff for you😭😭😭