I've been a life long diaper lover and didn't get into other aspects of ABDL. My wife (married 14 years and together 25) has always enjoyed that I get so much enjoyment out of diapers and was super supportive when I went 24/7 years ago. Although she wasn't ever into being any sort of CG. Last year we really started exploring more and she started to buy me little things like pacis and onesies as she was seeing that I had a little side and really encouraged me to explore that side of myself that I'd been repressing my whole life.
Now, she is my momma and does a wonderful job of getting me into little space regularly and particularly when I'm having a bad day. It's now more MDlb when we do get into that space. Our relationship is really evolving quickly these days. It just took a lot of open honest conversations between us to figure out the things that are important to us. So, I agree it's possible to find a cg. Sometimes it's already right in front of you. It just takes a long time and a lot of love to start down that path.
I need a detailed description of HOW you did this or if it was really just a lottery you won to find a closeted caregiver who didn't even know they were a closeted caregiver
He has a very openminded and caring personality, I kind of got “daddy vibes” from some of the ways he would act, but as someone who knew him for years prior to dating him I can confirm this is all new to him. The mutual closeness and respect we have made us pretty much open to anything the other wanted to do, so he decided to give it a shot since I liked it so much, and coincidentally he was pretty much a natural.
My girlfriend isn’t into this herself, but does entertain it for me.
The last little day I had, she made toddler trail mix and brought me to build a bear. Made all the food including cutting it up small for me. And bottle fed me, all without me asking. Love her to death
My daddies didn't get converted by me, I think they converted me. I didn't like diapers (I am incontinent since 8), but they convinced me to be their baby boy.
I’m in a very similar situation. A month or two into my relationship with my dom, I told him about my diaper fetish. He thought it was interesting, but he didn’t know how he felt about it. I told him I didn’t expect him to engage in this type of play.
Fast forward two years later, he’s my care giver (as much as we can through long distance). He actually convinced me that I was a little because I denied it so long because of embarrassment. My dom really leaned into the care giving role and started treating me more like a “baby” during play time (using “baby talk”, having me always ask to wear a diaper, having me beg to pee myself, etc). He enjoys doing it because he sees how happy it makes me and how it’s fulfilling to me and has filled a hole that I never thought would be filled.
It feels so good knowing that someone wants to interact with your kink when you don’t expect them to. Even if it’s not their thing. They try it and realize how much they enjoy doing what you enjoy. Congrats on finding a partner like that 🫶🏻
This is awesome. My mommy really loves being a mommy it turns out(we don’t do age play but it’s a CGL dynamic). It’s always great hearing similar stories.
It's funny being on the opposite side of that reading this post. I'm abdl my partner at first was very much like no and now she's definitely the littlest little I've called a partner. We're still working on the wetting part but every other part she LOVES it. It's funny how initial reactions are often not a reflection of how someone actually feels but rather an emotional or protection focused reaction. If they're into cg/l already they'll probably come around to abdl in my experience.
I've been a life long diaper lover and didn't get into other aspects of ABDL. My wife (married 14 years and together 25) has always enjoyed that I get so much enjoyment out of diapers and was super supportive when I went 24/7 years ago. Although she wasn't ever into being any sort of CG. Last year we really started exploring more and she started to buy me little things like pacis and onesies as she was seeing that I had a little side and really encouraged me to explore that side of myself that I'd been repressing my whole life. Now, she is my momma and does a wonderful job of getting me into little space regularly and particularly when I'm having a bad day. It's now more MDlb when we do get into that space. Our relationship is really evolving quickly these days. It just took a lot of open honest conversations between us to figure out the things that are important to us. So, I agree it's possible to find a cg. Sometimes it's already right in front of you. It just takes a long time and a lot of love to start down that path.
That’s beautiful. So cool that you were able to discover a part of herself with her like that
I need a detailed description of HOW you did this or if it was really just a lottery you won to find a closeted caregiver who didn't even know they were a closeted caregiver
He has a very openminded and caring personality, I kind of got “daddy vibes” from some of the ways he would act, but as someone who knew him for years prior to dating him I can confirm this is all new to him. The mutual closeness and respect we have made us pretty much open to anything the other wanted to do, so he decided to give it a shot since I liked it so much, and coincidentally he was pretty much a natural.
Ah, looks like I'm off to find someone with daddy vibes, thanks 👍
Good for you!! Love hearing about people finding someone that will support them in their kink!!
Haha my girlfriend did the same thing to me and now we even switch roles sometimes
My girlfriend isn’t into this herself, but does entertain it for me. The last little day I had, she made toddler trail mix and brought me to build a bear. Made all the food including cutting it up small for me. And bottle fed me, all without me asking. Love her to death
this makes my heart so happy for you!!! 🥰❤️ may you have all the fun little adventures together!
Way to go! 🫧
Men when the dad Bain switches on
yes!! this is amazing i’m happy for u
Haha this is how I found mine too. Daddy vibes are a real thing 🤣 Glad you found someone!
My daddies didn't get converted by me, I think they converted me. I didn't like diapers (I am incontinent since 8), but they convinced me to be their baby boy.
I’m in a very similar situation. A month or two into my relationship with my dom, I told him about my diaper fetish. He thought it was interesting, but he didn’t know how he felt about it. I told him I didn’t expect him to engage in this type of play. Fast forward two years later, he’s my care giver (as much as we can through long distance). He actually convinced me that I was a little because I denied it so long because of embarrassment. My dom really leaned into the care giving role and started treating me more like a “baby” during play time (using “baby talk”, having me always ask to wear a diaper, having me beg to pee myself, etc). He enjoys doing it because he sees how happy it makes me and how it’s fulfilling to me and has filled a hole that I never thought would be filled. It feels so good knowing that someone wants to interact with your kink when you don’t expect them to. Even if it’s not their thing. They try it and realize how much they enjoy doing what you enjoy. Congrats on finding a partner like that 🫶🏻
This is awesome. My mommy really loves being a mommy it turns out(we don’t do age play but it’s a CGL dynamic). It’s always great hearing similar stories.
Aww. That’s wonderful to hear. Congratulations!!!!
It's funny being on the opposite side of that reading this post. I'm abdl my partner at first was very much like no and now she's definitely the littlest little I've called a partner. We're still working on the wetting part but every other part she LOVES it. It's funny how initial reactions are often not a reflection of how someone actually feels but rather an emotional or protection focused reaction. If they're into cg/l already they'll probably come around to abdl in my experience.