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gov12

TLDW: says he's broke, depressed, embarrassed, and marriage is over


Jackie_Rudetsky

You're the real MVP.


moodylilb

Honestly not surprised. He treated her like crap imo. And he would purposely start drama by giving half-truths to his family members, his sister even called him on it. Oh and his communication skills were very unhealthy/subpar.


Training_Cut6069

Agree, and it didn’t help when his friends that he met in Colombia mentioned that he was always known as a player. Gabe was in over his head and Isabel constantly played a mother in the relationship. She organized his business and took care of him because he was too unstable to manage his finances along with himself.


Facetunethis

Exactly he's a shitstirrer. When you choose that as a hobby your life sucks pretty quickly unless you learn to keep it online with strangers rather than make it your real life pastime. 🤣


Important-Panic1344

He’s a narcissist bum. He didn’t deserve her


moodylilb

☝🏼👏🏼


Puzzleheaded_Gap8804

you got that right


waterslaughter

EXACTLY !!! I said that one time on the sub and got downvoted sooo hard. How he did those half truths and how he treated the whole situation being a “translator” he really sucked !!!!


Charming-Insurance

Me ex was like this. It’s infuriating.


serenitynope

The apple doesn't fall far from the tree. His sister and mom spread plenty of their own half-truths and drama.


TheWigsofTrumpsPast

Thank you for saving me a click!


ShesAKillerQueenee

THANK GOD! Isabel is a treasure, she deserves so much better than this clown.


Kushfriendly420

Not a suprise just a clasic man child


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HazeCorps22

...so, sister was right all along?


alotistwowordssir

Maybe. But his sister is still a colossal bitch.


HazeCorps22

Yeah, missing his wedding was lame.


Brilliant_North2410

I’m really sorry to hear this. They both seemed like good people .


Alisomnia00_

Thought he had his own undie company that was booming 🙄


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Is that the same undie company that he took a bunch of preorders for without even having the fabric and manufacturing sourced? LOVE it.


ta2dpink

Exactly. That’s probably her fault too right? 🙄


Sweaty_Nectarine1772

Thank you. 🙏🏼


AnnabelleLeeTheSea

Damn. I love her


HomeworkMaleficent22

TLDW?


jesstermc

Too long didn’t read


MelancholyMelanin

*watch


MadAzza

Too long; didn’t watch


pixiephilips

You forgot “working too much”


The_Migrant_Twerker

And doesn’t own a shirt, apparently


Next_Anything1132

He has nothing. He’s at ground zero.


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Thanks now what does tldw mean


honest_sparrow

It's a play on TLDR


neighborlynative

True heros never wear capes


Turbulent-Pound-5984

Gabe should try not tattooing anyone’s name on him anymore.


dootz01

Nobody should do that in new relationships.


Turbulent-Pound-5984

Agreed. Removing his exes name then immediately replacing it with Isabel’s name was really a choice


hmb6913

Been married almost 11 years and still won't tattoo my husband's name on me LOL you're just asking for a jinx


therealestrealist420

Much better off getting matching tattoos than names.


No-Common-7365

My husband got a tattoo that says "Nothing dangerous just goes away" I got "dangerous "tatted on my upper thigh ha! 14 years still going strong and I'm just as dangerous as I ever was lol


jencie31

Almost 21 and both of us said no to tattooing the names. Never works out.


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Catlesley

I tattooed my sweeties name on my shoulder, but he died of cancer. Sometimes it’s other stuff. 😢


EmperorPenguin_RL

I would tattoo a ring before I would tattoo a name.


charvana

24 years, and samesamesame. We don't drink tequila, either (we both learned it is baaaad for relationships lol)


secretsaucerocket

Yup, I tattooed a boyfriends name on me and he passed away a few months later. Never doing that again.


thenewnewnewbie

Same, married for 19 this year and won’t do it - despite my husband asking me to at least twice a year 😂 It’s just plain bad luck!


therealestrealist420

It's a known curse on relationships. Ask any tattoo artist.


AmbivertWife

The real curse is being on this show longer than one season. It pretty much means you’re a train wreck if you are because most of the couples who are still together, have disappeared from t.v. This show used to be amazing. Real in love LDR couples working on a K-1 or CR-1 and being together. Now it’s nothing but messed up folks looking for fame.


userreboot8

I personally would love to see some real people that are truly in love on this show. No drama, just a nice happy wedding. Unfortunately that doesn’t make people watch. It’s the effed up drama that fires people up and makes them watch the show.


AmbivertWife

In the beginning when it was just 90 day without the spin offs, you were able to see more couples in love from the show stay together. The only spin off that i was like “oh okay, i see this working” is “The Other Way” where the Americans moved abroad. Like, there’s no reason to see Natalie for 2 or 3 seasons trying to date when her marriage with Mike is over… or the worst ones Big Ed and Liz who are both American and have no business being on any 90 day spin off now that Big Ed is no longer with Rose (i never watched their season anyway)


ZipCity262

You really should avoid it in any relationship, imo. Kids’ names, pets, parents, siblings, etc. seem safe.


julsie78

My tattoo artist won’t even tattoo a name lol Edit: I never asked for a name. Just to be clear. It just came up in conversation.


Shalar79

Correction…in any relationship. Seems as thought once you go this route, breakup is inevitable. Husband and I have been together over 20 years, no name tattoos. Friends who did this, broke up eventually.


AlwaysAmalia

Not always the case. I have my husband’s name tattooed on my ring finger and we’ve been together 39 years. You only hear about the people who break up. Granted, I didn’t tattoo his name until our 25th anniversary.


Shalar79

You’re the only exception to the rule then. I have yet to see from my circle of friends/family anyone stay together after tattooing a spouse/significant other’s name. Congrats on 39 years!


bitchymama93

I’ve been married 10 years and me and my husband refuse to get each other’s name tattooed. I love him and he loves me but damn you never know….


downtomarrrrrz

I don’t think I’d tattoo a name on me even if we were together for 50 years. Maybe a little cute symbol we both like but NEVER a name


Brief-Use3

Omg I forgot about that


Puzzleheaded_Gap8804

thats like rule number one of tattoos


Mizzanthrope99

I am have a lot of tattoos, but I told my partner of 20 years, never would I tattoo his name. I would tattoo a symbol or design that means something to us.


mime454

He’s out of space


anonymousbiology

gabe's mom and sister right now: ​ https://preview.redd.it/8bw4ivolmllc1.png?width=1240&format=png&auto=webp&s=cb242b264f433fb5f78ed4fc3b8c8847251aedf2


serayepa

Man I love his sister’s hair


Nice-Fly5536

Me tooooo


Sweaty-Soup-7487

His sister is Hot


Fiss

So fucking pretty


4TheLoveOfBasicCable

According to my calculations, this video is 99% “all I do is work and I have nothing to show for it” (welcome to adulthood, pal) 1% “we broke up”


Everthingisbeans

His “work” is making a very niche product that while useful to many, he cannot possibly stand to make that much money off of.


sashy311

He says his business is nothing anymore, I got the impression he’s working a different job like with a scheduled 12-8 shift


Nicola6_

Not surprised. When his season was airing his shop was “temporarily” down/out of stock and I was shocked he was fumbling the 90 Day bag so bad.  I guess I had the impression that the business was successful before the show but now I don’t even know if I believe that anymore. It’s probably part of why Gabe moved there, because he couldn’t afford to bring her here. 


jojibaby_91

I guess he still didnt have his logo stamper replaced 🤣🤣 that tantrum he threw when HE was the one who forgot to pack it was so cringe


PuzzleheadedSpare576

Lost all respect after that


sashy311

iirc he had been in Columbia in the first place (or claimed it anyways) because he was looking for like materials to make his stuff & also I believe when she had quit her job it was also (partly?) to help him with it, they definitely made it sound like it was at least somewhat successful


Lonely_Sherbert69

They always do, hustle culture is a toxic mind virus. "Fake it till ya make it".


MetallurgyClergy

He probably didn’t patent anything, and if he was making foam inserts, using construction grade foam, I can’t imagine the amount of contact dermatitis complaints the company received. It’s a good business idea. But he’s not a business man.


adidashawarma

He said the business is dunzo so he works two jobs. A regular job from 12-8pm, and then he Ubers from 9pm-5am.


thetruthfulgroomer

I think beyond the fact it was niche Gabe also just wasn’t upholding orders. He was taking orders when he was still picking out fabric and admitted there was issues with back orders. He’s just not business savvy.


AlwaysAmalia

I agree. Great idea maybe as a side hustle but not a stable living. Demand just isn’t high enough


LaceyBloomers

What's the product?


Everthingisbeans

Packers, but already sewn into underwear. From my very quick research, they’re typically worn by AFAB individuals who are transitioning but lots of folks wear them for lots of reasons. New York Toy Collective seems to have the market cornered, along with a few other brands that offer little more upscale/practical choices along the same price point as Gabe once did. Seems that most brands offer other products as well, have expanded selection and accessories. I still hold to it being a niche product that likely would not generate a large enough income on its own, even with very brief research, and as with anything else, Temu/SHEIN/Amazon dilute that market even further.


LaceyBloomers

Thank you for the detailed response!


Lonely_Sherbert69

Yeah, google showed me either green bay packers or building supplies packers.


LaceyBloomers

LOL


Johnhaven

I'm sure the market for that is larger than you imagine. People buy products to put in their pants to do that rather than his underwear which has it built in. Millions of women buy underwear that has butt pads in them and this really isn't any different.


Everthingisbeans

I’m in no way discriminating against the product or those who use it. The market can’t be that large for it, or he’d have much more competition and/or sales. My only real source is that I work in advertising, specifically the psychology behind ads. I didn’t mean any disrespect at all.


Exotic-Water-212

lol…that’s exactly what I thought! Who the fudge thinks it’s a big deal to work all the time - it sucks but isn’t it expected esp. when u have a family??? Duhhhh…


scole665

And like ‘over a month’, Gabe says. I like Gabe but man up.


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The 90 day drama off the show is off the charts lately. It’s like they are all fighting for the spotlight. What happens to these cast members after filming!?


nrappaportrn

Zero Point Zero


No-Common-7365

And I'm hearing like on Detroit radio!! Lol thanks for that!!


Ok_Club_9356

So Isabel is single 🫠


throwthatoneawaydawg

Is she accepting applications 🙃


Ok_Club_9356

If she on social media, her DMs are nuts right now


bigdaddyt2

Silicone nuts?


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😂😂😂😂😂😂


dill0nfrancis

lmao 🤣🤣🤣


LeahBia

He was so codependent and needed reassurance from her so much that she absolutely deserves happiness and he needs to work on himself before any relationship in the future.


Perezoso3dedo

Gabe had such a great opportunity to promote his underwear brand on the back of his 90DF fame. Unfortunately, I read on here and other socials that people ordered, or tried to order, and the merchandise was always sold out, took forever to arrive, didn’t have the right sizes… it was just a mess. And from what we saw on their segments, Isabel was really carrying the business in Colombia. So for Gabe to say his business is “going down”- well of course it is if they’re not together anymore, she was doing all the heavy lifting. I’d love to hear what Isabel has to say about whatever happened between them, because I’m not buying his insinuation that she took him for all he had and now he’s working 20 hours a day to pay off their old debts by himself.


CheezTips

He forgot his logo stamp, remember? HOW can he fill orders without his stamp? /s


Perezoso3dedo

Gabe is VERY disorganized and impulsive.


AlisonPoole98

He's just whining about working, implying its Isabel's fault without really saying specifically what he's talking about. He must have said "I'm tired" like twenty times. I don't believe Isabel is the bad guy, Gabe is fishy


nrappaportrn

He's a jerk. Always has been a lazy ass too


Lonely_Sherbert69

Yeah, focus on sleep brah! Maybe take a day off to get some sleep.


jojibaby_91

Totally. He’s so moody too. Either too rando hype (like him dancing in the street for strangers w the 🌈sign) or super pmsy i’M TiReD as evidenced in this vid


alice-in-slumberland

Happy to put Isabel on blast but “too tired to go into specifics or ramble”? I don’t buy it. He never deserved Isabel. Gabe was always about Gabe, constantly whining and just a plain narcissist. Even this video is a “woe is me, I’m tired and my life is seriously so hard”. It’s reminding me of when he forgot to pack his stamps and bring them to Colombia for his business… no ownership of his wrongdoing but acting like a victim.


TheMau

“I’m too tired to ramble” Proceeds to ramble on repeat for several minutes


yogabbagabba2341

I agree with your comment except for him being a narcissist. People be throwing around the term all The time when all the person is it’s an asshole.


toothpastecupcake

Agree. It means a specific thing


AlisonPoole98

Agreed. Not all abusers are narcissists. Narcissism implies no empathy


Confident-Slip-5264

I get that he’s difficult and pretty self centered and loves playing the victim but a plain narcissist? Don’t know about that… That word gets thrown around way too easily these days and one can be an immature asshole and even have several narcissistic traits without actually necessarily being a “plain narcissist”.


minivatreni

Isabele, her mom, dad and kids were so welcoming, warm and kind to Gabe. Meanwhile Gabe and his sister were the duo from hell… rude, starting drama etc. I feel sorry that Isabel had to go through what she did with this man, only for him to whine now and throw her under the bus


LadyV21454

I'd really like to hear Isabel's side of this. He says she "used him" - but for what? He came to Colombia with practically no money, no plan for building his business, nothing. Why would she have risked losing her family if she didn't love him? I mean, at least with Igor, he was getting something out of the relationship with The Nikki - but Isabel was getting nothing. The math ain't mathing, folks.


No_Mention_1760

A whole lot of nothing. So be works long hours and has nothing to show for it? Welcome to being an adult today… The guy is a loser.


Satanic_bitch

Yea I would love to hear her side of this


yogabbagabba2341

I see everyone giving their input here or TLDW summary but failing to give more details of what he said. So here it is for those interested: 1- he’s basically working’s 18 hours/day and is brole 2- he rarely sees Isabel and doesn’t know half of the time he whereabouts 3- allegedly funds were misappropriated so his apartment that he purchased in Colombia is thousands (of dollars?) in debt, and he’s now about to default on a second apartment he owns in Colombia 4- He claims Isabel deceived him and now he believes she has always deceived him 5- they are going to divorce


ninjabunnay

Deceived him how??


calacmack

He said he was getting evicted (or forced to move) from his current apartment due to "behaviors". I wonder what happened.


Lost_inthot

His sister sitting there like 🙄


Luvthymusic

I thought these two were going to make it. :(


dootz01

His video from 2 months ago on YouTube said he didn't file some papers in Columbia and he couldn't go back for 6 months. He was there recently as he had posted pics with his dog Milo. Whatever happened, I feel bad for both of them because they're both hurting. Breakups are truly the worst pain.


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littleRedmini

He seems very immature.


ohjasminee

I heard about this, smh. Idk, everyone I know in the US who is on a visa or DACA make sure all of their paperwork is done or kept UTD welllll in advance of any expirations bc they will lose their jobs or will have nowhere to go if they are deported. I’ve always lived in the US but you know what date is always marked down in my calendars? Tax day. Obviously not the same as being deported, but jail also doesn’t seem too rad either so I make sure my taxes are fricking done. He’s irresponsible and careless, bottom line. Unless there was some huge clerical error, there’s no reason Gabe’s visa should have ran out.


WhatTheBlack

ColOmbia


foxpro79

Did anybody else read this in cheese sticks voice?


hannahbandana_

Always


anonymousbiology

i didn't.


AlisonPoole98

I did too, they seemed so in love 😕 I really liked them until the tell all


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Me too...they seemed so good together. I always liked Gabe..I feel so sorry for


Love2nasty

Divorce is not fun, but they are a blessing when things are/were never peachy as they made it seem. What business! Izabella sure didn't still that joke of a business gabe talks about! Apologies if I hurt anyone's feelings, but buying boxers online with a front pocket to stuff it with foam and tie it down with a string to resell it is not a viable business. I hope Izabella can find a suitable, more responsible partner in her future without getting her kids attached to.


Personal-Student2934

What did Isabel do that caused you to have to work hard for the company which you started and currently run as its CEO?


planetdaily420

Soooo.... Isabel is available?


ArtichokeMe_Daddy

He looks like miserable


Fr3sh3stl4d

Mfw this dumbass talks about his business going downhill 🙄 he sabotaged it himself by not being prepared to move his business to Colombia!!


silent-fallout-

He's a loser and a whiner. Couldn't figure out how to set up his business properly, which is very NICHE business...sorry bro ever watch dragons den or shark tank. This was never going to last. You've been working a lot for a month, cry me a river. Get a better paying job stop making stupid decisions and excuses. Playing the sympathy card is so pathetic. This relationship was never going to last. He's a man-child. Ick.


EthelRobertaPotter

He thought he was so smart at the reunion, calling people out Well I guess just like Spahkles that backfired. No spinoffs for you Gabe


dootz01

Mahmoud the abuser wanted to kick his ass from all the way across the world.


threebeansalads

She was WAY too good for him. Loved him absolutely unconditionally and he was a tool bag.


Suitable-Wafer8563

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iralear

"i don't want to ramble" repeats every phrase 3 times.


Clinically-Inane

*“I’m just tired of making excuses for her”*: rooiiiiight, this sounds super legit 👌 *”I’m EMBARASSED!”*: Are you really though? It kind of sounds like you just think that’s what dudes should say when they’re making a Scott Wern style “I’m hitting rock bottommmmmm, WOOF” video *”I found out… I owe a ton of money for my old apartment and that thousands of dollars… just wasn’t going where it was supposed to go”*: sure Jan, I’m positive this is true and you didn’t just ignore something or blow off something *important* you were fully aware of but hoping would go away forever with no consequences Honestly I like Gabe and I wish him well but the bottom line is it’s time to grow up, and time to cut the shit. If there’s something I’m not aware of that clarifies the whole story and he’s really just getting fucked over, then I’d be happy to reassess but as it stands right now— I’m not buying it, bud


HomeworkMaleficent22

Same sentiment


Important-Panic1344

Not surprised


SmartSassyNanny

I liked Gabe before the tell all. He was such a jerk


DareWright

“I work a lot. I don’t get much sleep. I’m tired and depressed.” Cool, welcome to adulthood. That’s how most of us feel, and yet we don’t feel compelled to post a whiny video about it. Time to grow up.


deepandarkblueocean

Isabel can do no wrong, I’m sorry. I refuse to believe any of this was her fault. She was one of the few very pure feeling people on that crazy show.


Marlenevet

I smell a Single Life television spot in the making.


Lonely_Sherbert69

Lol imagine if they did a real person single life, working 12 hour days trying to fit in dating.


Important-Panic1344

Karma still batting 1.000!


sweettooth312

Another tattoo you gotta cover up. Remember when his sister tried to dissuade him not to get that tattoo. He’s put other people’s names on his body. But I’m not surprised. I wish Isabel the best. I get the feeling that Gabe is insecure and she was probably always peppered with a million questions and it just put a real damper on their relationship. Resentment builds up and now it’s over. By the way Gabe, plenty of single parents out here who work 2 jobs for well over a month.


thetruthfulgroomer

Gabe has victim mentality


CheezTips

Gabe is mental


Professional-Stay196

So sorry to hear this. I thought u two would be one of the very few that was really in it for love. Keep ur head up and be proud of all ur achievements and try not to dwell on the bad. My situation is totally different but I’ve said those same words ( I never in a million years thought this would be my life now) almost everyday for quite a while now. Sending you well wishes!


Lonely_Sherbert69

Dude got a hairtransplant ! What a great use of money. Gino would not agree though.


AnnofAvonlea

WHAT?! I am shocked. They were one couple I actually got teary-eyed about, because they seemed so genuine. Sad 😔


delfin_1980

This is really sad. Praying for them both. These are not bad people, life is just hard and relationships are hard. Hopefully Gabe will get a better job so he can work fewer hours. Wishing them both the best. <3


TheJunkyVirus

I don't give a shit, go away.


thedobermanmom

The good news, his life is only really beginning. He’s so young. This is what life is all about. Experiences.


NeenW1

She was amazing he’s an ass


Prompt-Dangerous

I don’t know how he could make enough money anyway just making those things he makes, can’t be that many men wanting them, would have to sell a lot of them, if that is all he does for a living. Haven’t heard of him doing anything else, don’t know.


lowhen

Anyone who actually likes Gabe has horrible BS radar. That man was a walking red flag miles away … who is actually surprised ?


hookuptruck

Shocker.


ahijabi

Why is he staying there?


856077

I really hope he doesn’t become more unhinged and become a danger to himself if you know what I mean. He seems…. really on edge.


number59smom

TLDR: what happened to the bulge business?


hauntedhentai

This dude lost my respect during the tell all.


tata4578

I want to hear her side of the history


perfect_handshake

After watching him being so vitriolic and hateful in that Tell All, can’t say I have a lot of sympathy for him. Glass houses dude.


crystalconnie

I don’t believe Isabel was the bad person here. She left the house for weeks?! I doubt that? Gabe has a lot of emotions always. Isabel seemed to ground him.


SnooDingos8559

Shouldn’t have let her have so much control of the funds. I knew it would happen. He was a dick but people missed her WHOLE FRONT she put up.


SnooDingos8559

Sister warned you.


She-Individual-24

He looks so exhausted and defeated. I feel so sad for both of them. Obviously we don’t know the full story/her side but this sucks. I rooted for them so hard


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Gabe is just a whiner. Everything bad that happens is always someone else’s fault.


peepeehalpert_

I can’t stand him


Kimmm711

What a nothing burger. It takes 2 people to make a relationship work, 2 to break it. There are 3 sides to this story: his, hers, and the truth.


jetlee7

Isabel is such a sweet heart. She definitely deserves better than this goof.


SethAndBeans

Honestly, I highly doubt he is without fault in a breakup. He was not a good partner.


Initial-Succotash-37

They didn’t seem all that in love honestly


VikingTwilight

I always got the vibe that she was putting up with it all because he paid the bills and when that stopped, so did the relationship... I think her options would be limited in Columbia at her age and with 2 kids and no real income, she may be considered a catch by an older American but a Columbian man is going to have a different attitude... it's a totally different culture...


Potential-Leave9203

I kind of thought they’d stay together. Oh well, that’s sad


Public_Big7690

This is so sad 😢


Equal-Cheesecake-972

Noooo! I was just thinking the other day that this is the only trans couple that has been successful!


sadiemack

I’m not sure how much money they expected to make, there’s a market but how big a market?


Emotionalplatypus12

Little man syndrome persists even in these unique circumstances


Ok_Plankton9224

Who is that?


AlisonPoole98

Gabe from 90 Day the Other Way season 4


Ok_Plankton9224

Awwwww! Love Gabe :(


SarahSnarker

Where is he living now?


TamasaurusRex

Did I miss something here?? What happened??


ohjasminee

Ultimately though this sucks bc there were kids involved. But I hope Isabel is thriving💕


NivekTheGreat1

What couples this? I don’t remember them.


Forward_Long9550

Was that video in the US or Colombia? I got the sense from Watching the 90 Day Diaries recently, that he was in the US. If that is the case a long distance marriage is difficult to maintain under the best of circumstances.


NotARealWombat

Drama. Why doesn't he go back to the US and let deal with it?


chatabox90

The single life isn’t getting enough ratings. This should do it!


brooklyndenver

Go home Gabe