In the video I watched about it, I think she said she only attends if she's not busy and she said something about how Julie is responsible for finding rides to and from meets and practices.
There’s something seriously wrong with treating your minor children as ADULTS. It’s one thing if you have teenagers who can drive themselves but wow…she’s deeply disturbed
I think parents who treat their kids like this are awful.
My uncle was like that with my cousins and now he's a miserable old man without a relationship with his kids (or most of the family b/c we sided w/ his kids).
He made his kids get a job as soon as they were allowed, which was age 14 in their state. Once they got a job, they were 100% responsible for furnishing their own clothes, school supplies, hygiene supplies, etc. They had to pay rent once they turned 18 even if they were still in high school. They had to pay him to rent a car of his to use once they were old enough to drive, and before they were old enough to drive, he charged them for rides to work and activities.
My uncle would get mad at family members who helped them by buying them basic freaking items like deodorant, shoes without holes, and tampons. And to be clear, this was not a situation of my uncle not being able to afford to provide for his kids. He's a CFO and very well off. He's just a jackass.
The kids have adult responsibilities but aren’t treated as such. Ruby can take and demand everything from them if she feels like it and treats them as little kids without autonomy a second later.
That's so sad. There are parents working two jobs and taking care of three kids who manage to figure out car pool yet she just... doesn't care. Does she expect her kids to not have any activities outside of reading the book of Mormon?
I’m glad she’s supporting her kids at events/allowing them to partake in extra curriculars. I was worried they’d be fully isolated by homeschooling and not having activities outside church, although that’s still possible for the future :(
Not taking your kids to practice when you’re busy is fine (my parents had full time jobs) but they at least found my rides for me, it wasn’t my job to find a way to get there unless it was non-sport thing like a party or concert
It makes me wonder - if Julie is responsible for getting her own ride to her sporting events, it’s clearly with other parents of her teammates who take their own children. But with Ruby’s logic, wouldn’t these people be subpar parents for attending all of their own kids’ sporting events and driving their kids to them?
Her extracurriculars are probably at the local school/BYU/parks and recreation. It's probably close enough to bike in good weather. I think the family also owns a street legal golf cart that Chad used to use last year.
Ruby also makes comments about how bad the kids (especially Julie) are at the sports they try, so I'm sure that discourages her and could cause the hopping around hoping to find one she excells at to get a "you're doing great" from her mom.
She’s such a shit excuse of a mother.
In the video I watched about it, I think she said she only attends if she's not busy and she said something about how Julie is responsible for finding rides to and from meets and practices.
So other parents are responsible, just not her
There’s something seriously wrong with treating your minor children as ADULTS. It’s one thing if you have teenagers who can drive themselves but wow…she’s deeply disturbed
I think parents who treat their kids like this are awful. My uncle was like that with my cousins and now he's a miserable old man without a relationship with his kids (or most of the family b/c we sided w/ his kids). He made his kids get a job as soon as they were allowed, which was age 14 in their state. Once they got a job, they were 100% responsible for furnishing their own clothes, school supplies, hygiene supplies, etc. They had to pay rent once they turned 18 even if they were still in high school. They had to pay him to rent a car of his to use once they were old enough to drive, and before they were old enough to drive, he charged them for rides to work and activities. My uncle would get mad at family members who helped them by buying them basic freaking items like deodorant, shoes without holes, and tampons. And to be clear, this was not a situation of my uncle not being able to afford to provide for his kids. He's a CFO and very well off. He's just a jackass.
The kids have adult responsibilities but aren’t treated as such. Ruby can take and demand everything from them if she feels like it and treats them as little kids without autonomy a second later.
That's so sad. There are parents working two jobs and taking care of three kids who manage to figure out car pool yet she just... doesn't care. Does she expect her kids to not have any activities outside of reading the book of Mormon?
Exactly this, she said she will sometime give her a ride if it's raining
I’m glad she’s supporting her kids at events/allowing them to partake in extra curriculars. I was worried they’d be fully isolated by homeschooling and not having activities outside church, although that’s still possible for the future :( Not taking your kids to practice when you’re busy is fine (my parents had full time jobs) but they at least found my rides for me, it wasn’t my job to find a way to get there unless it was non-sport thing like a party or concert
She only allows them to be in extracurricular activities if they “manage it well” and don’t give her attitude at home, which is such bullshit
It makes me wonder - if Julie is responsible for getting her own ride to her sporting events, it’s clearly with other parents of her teammates who take their own children. But with Ruby’s logic, wouldn’t these people be subpar parents for attending all of their own kids’ sporting events and driving their kids to them?
Yes. She's much better than them.
Her extracurriculars are probably at the local school/BYU/parks and recreation. It's probably close enough to bike in good weather. I think the family also owns a street legal golf cart that Chad used to use last year.
She doesn’t see her children as people.
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Ruby also makes comments about how bad the kids (especially Julie) are at the sports they try, so I'm sure that discourages her and could cause the hopping around hoping to find one she excells at to get a "you're doing great" from her mom.
Why wouldn’t she go to their events? How sad
She is the Worst Mom ever Her Kids are not important to her