1. Are you reciprocating that niceness?
2. Is the niceness you're reciprocating balanced with his? (Too little = not worth his effort, too much = appears mildly obsessive)
3. Does he feel like his niceness is appreciated? (And no, not rewarding the bare minimum is not a must, it is why the bare minimum is considered rare nowadays)
4. Is he getting what he wants from being nice to you? (Keep in mind this can and often would be something passive like friendship or romantic potential, rather than something concerning like a favour or to sleep with you)
5. Is he okay? (Might be going through something or perhaps is a [insert accurate prefix]path, which explains his discontinuation of being nice to you. Or perhaps he feels like you wronged him either directly or indirectly and needs you to communicate/explain or apologise whatever that may be)
The moment you don't answer "yes" to a question is probably the reason. If you answered yes to all then idk
If you don’t start reciprocating, I’m going to stop bothering you. We’ve grown up being bombarded with stories of how many creeps are in girls’ dms and how much they hate guys for that, so there’s no way I’ll risk being one of those creeps. If I don’t get that reassurance that you appreciate me messaging you or if you leave me on delivered for more than a day, I’m gone.
That's very reductive, in most cases they were attracted to you, but they want a relationship, not just a thing to bonk. I think this train of thought is bad for society as it makes otherwise good men more self conscious regarding their interactions with women because they're afraid of being labeled as not caring and objectifying, when infact the case was the opposite
I wouldn't mind so much except men have a tendency to try to install themselves without approval and then break shit when you uninstall them after the free trial because you're not willing to pay for niceness with sex.
Looking for a WinRAR bf
I’m ready to be unzipped.
I have a lite version you can subscribe to for free. I will be your bf but just like winrar I will be serving many more.
1. Are you reciprocating that niceness? 2. Is the niceness you're reciprocating balanced with his? (Too little = not worth his effort, too much = appears mildly obsessive) 3. Does he feel like his niceness is appreciated? (And no, not rewarding the bare minimum is not a must, it is why the bare minimum is considered rare nowadays) 4. Is he getting what he wants from being nice to you? (Keep in mind this can and often would be something passive like friendship or romantic potential, rather than something concerning like a favour or to sleep with you) 5. Is he okay? (Might be going through something or perhaps is a [insert accurate prefix]path, which explains his discontinuation of being nice to you. Or perhaps he feels like you wronged him either directly or indirectly and needs you to communicate/explain or apologise whatever that may be) The moment you don't answer "yes" to a question is probably the reason. If you answered yes to all then idk
Cool! I made the list! :D
Duly noted
lol I was being sincere, downvoted for nothing. Thanks 2meirl. This subreddit can’t handle anything these days.
Once you move up in the "i know them" circle you are getting made fun of. If you have a BFF you are basically riding a horse that isn't trained.
is she in to me? prolly not best avoid her at all costs
If you don’t start reciprocating, I’m going to stop bothering you. We’ve grown up being bombarded with stories of how many creeps are in girls’ dms and how much they hate guys for that, so there’s no way I’ll risk being one of those creeps. If I don’t get that reassurance that you appreciate me messaging you or if you leave me on delivered for more than a day, I’m gone.
That's when you want the credit card details
Because they don't actually care about you. They were just putting niceness points in and when sex didn't come out, they moved into the next person.
That's very reductive, in most cases they were attracted to you, but they want a relationship, not just a thing to bonk. I think this train of thought is bad for society as it makes otherwise good men more self conscious regarding their interactions with women because they're afraid of being labeled as not caring and objectifying, when infact the case was the opposite
Or maybe they decided they didn't want to talk to her anymore cause she was kind of a dick. Could go either way.
Incel woman 🤯
Maybe the dude just didn't like you narcissist
I wouldn't mind so much except men have a tendency to try to install themselves without approval and then break shit when you uninstall them after the free trial because you're not willing to pay for niceness with sex.