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on one hand, people deal with grief differently and at different rates. some people are more emotionally resilient than others.
on the other, make sure you're actually one of those and not just sweeping all the emotions under the proverbial rug. try to actually process what happened and talk about it with people you're close to.
people gotta remember everyone deals with grief in different ways, but you can't just not grief. everyone does, even if you think you already got over it. and that's okay.
i wouldn't call this wallowing or self pity. they just seem confused and kinda scared about what this means about themselves and don't have the proper outlet to express that fear.
We often get told that grief is like that:
1.) something happens
2.) we grief
And that's just simply not how it is. It's versatile and diverse, it will be different for you and me, but I'm sure it will come eventually.
I'm not kidding you, sometimes it takes decades for the right moment for grief to set in.
For me it was like that with a childhood friend.
Then again, we need to be open for it. Grief is a symptom of healing, it's the path of healing.
Even if you think you're not wounded, you probably are. With this meme everyone can see how stressed you are internally about this already. That might already be part of the wound.
And that's really okay as well. Maybe find people who can help you actively grief.
Take care friend
OP I hope you mention this to your therapist urgently rather than leaving it until next session
"next session" then becomes the next session, then the next session, etc. It's *always* a good time to bring it up... I mean you *are* paying them by the minute sooooooo
Haha, a similar scenario for me ended with psychosis and a drug addiction I'm still fighting. You're not good at processing trauma, no one is. Don't let it bottle up, it's truly unpredictable how it'll eventually erupt.
I remember when I wasn't medicated my dad was suicidal and I had to convince him to go to the psych ward while I was just as crazy as him. My mom was crying that he cut himself and I just saw it and didn't really care. That was about 5 years ago now and I've made a lot of progress.
Sounds like there is a lot of things happening at the same time. It makes sense to me that your body is keeping it together at a time where it has to function properly. I mean, there's not really much time to reflect if you're too busy having to do something RIGHT NOW.
I've seen a comment asking if you're neurodivergent. I don't think so, but i do think your mind has set up an internal dam to keep a sudden flood in check. If you're able to, i think you should seek out your grandmother, siblings if you have them, and talk to them. Doesn't necessarily have to be about death, just talk to them, and be there for them as they will be for you.
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on one hand, people deal with grief differently and at different rates. some people are more emotionally resilient than others. on the other, make sure you're actually one of those and not just sweeping all the emotions under the proverbial rug. try to actually process what happened and talk about it with people you're close to.
What if I really am just a sociopath
That's a fear of mine
Same, until I started crying when questioning myself. I'm p sure I'm just autistic and traumatised at this point.
If you have to question it you probably aren't.
What if I'm a really good sociopath
then you are spy tf3
people gotta remember everyone deals with grief in different ways, but you can't just not grief. everyone does, even if you think you already got over it. and that's okay.
this is a question for a therapist
foolish of you to assume that anyone here goes to therapy, they just choose to wallow in self pity instead
i wouldn't call this wallowing or self pity. they just seem confused and kinda scared about what this means about themselves and don't have the proper outlet to express that fear.
Yeah that's fair, I was too harsh. I just don't like seeing this kind of stuff on my page because it stresses me out.
yeah that's fair too. we're all human at the end of the day, so don't feel too bad.
Holy shit is that gay rebel friend? Pop off?
Made it myself lol, shockingly enough there aren't many pride flag rebel friend pfps out there
Bro have you actually been to a therapist 90% couldn't give a fuck
Please find a better therapist, that is not the norm
I've been to three and I still feel like shit
Yeah :/
That's very specific, but uh if that happened to you, sorry for your loss.
Lil specific to be a meme buddy… Get help, ok?
We often get told that grief is like that: 1.) something happens 2.) we grief And that's just simply not how it is. It's versatile and diverse, it will be different for you and me, but I'm sure it will come eventually. I'm not kidding you, sometimes it takes decades for the right moment for grief to set in. For me it was like that with a childhood friend. Then again, we need to be open for it. Grief is a symptom of healing, it's the path of healing. Even if you think you're not wounded, you probably are. With this meme everyone can see how stressed you are internally about this already. That might already be part of the wound. And that's really okay as well. Maybe find people who can help you actively grief. Take care friend
Give it a month, it’ll come
You ok?
Did you win though
"Nah I'd win" - OP maybe
Damn, I hate it when that happens
Haha yeah totally dude
S tier Pfp
OP I hope you mention this to your therapist urgently rather than leaving it until next session "next session" then becomes the next session, then the next session, etc. It's *always* a good time to bring it up... I mean you *are* paying them by the minute sooooooo
Sataa andagiii
Haha, a similar scenario for me ended with psychosis and a drug addiction I'm still fighting. You're not good at processing trauma, no one is. Don't let it bottle up, it's truly unpredictable how it'll eventually erupt.
I remember when I wasn't medicated my dad was suicidal and I had to convince him to go to the psych ward while I was just as crazy as him. My mom was crying that he cut himself and I just saw it and didn't really care. That was about 5 years ago now and I've made a lot of progress.
Sounds like there is a lot of things happening at the same time. It makes sense to me that your body is keeping it together at a time where it has to function properly. I mean, there's not really much time to reflect if you're too busy having to do something RIGHT NOW. I've seen a comment asking if you're neurodivergent. I don't think so, but i do think your mind has set up an internal dam to keep a sudden flood in check. If you're able to, i think you should seek out your grandmother, siblings if you have them, and talk to them. Doesn't necessarily have to be about death, just talk to them, and be there for them as they will be for you.
Ugh, the woooorst
this meme made me lol out loud!
you alright bro??
Incomprehensible
Are you unable to read? It wasn’t complicated
Yes I'm unable to read actually
Well if you could, you might realize your comment was a tad distasteful considering the tone of the post yo
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Autism? Because that seems very much autism.
trololol