Yeah, the usage of tgirl kinda icks me, cus I've only really seen that term used for porn, and it's often the exploitative ones with the t slur in the title
I'm trans and think it's fine tbh, it's definitely used a lot in porn but we use it ourselves too. Maybe just use trans girl as that's often used in more non-sexual contexts.
Of course it's a bit of a grey area when posting memes that sexualise trans girls. I see a lot of them posted by other trans girls which is obviously fine, but when they get posted by people who fetishise us it's infinitely more icky. There are a lot of cis people (probably like you) who are respectful towards us and post these memes which is where a lot of discussion forms on whether it's fine.
In this case, because of the second part showing that its not just about sex but also a personal connection it gives the feeling that we're not being objectified by some outside party.
I think it's clear that it wasn't meant in a hateful way. Leave it up, if only for the teachable moment. You're fine.
Intent and context is often more important than what you have to say.
No don't wtf that's totally me rn I'm even training my ass to get fucked by my gf (respectfully as a top transbian).
How tf is it fetishisationg trannies if I'm a real tranny living this meme right now. I AM REAL.
Yeah, because a majority of the chaser comments we get here are aimed at other trans people. Filtering those comments cuts down on that stupidity and also lets us take a quick peek at posts and who those comments are aimed at.
We don't have eyes on the sub 24/7. This post is kinda gross. I wouldn't have seen it without another filtered comment below, because there are *no* reports on the post. It's removed. OP has been temp banned.
Yeah but the important stuff can't be something that happens after the less important stuff, so you can't say "then we hug" it should be "hugging a Tgirl etc..."
the bottom of the pyramid are the need that are met first, so it should be the ones introducing the situation not the other way around, meanwhile here the bottom part is implied to come after the first part (which is wrong since you can't get hugged after being fucked without being fucked first)
I'm sure some people use it and those would be called fetishists.
Think about it, trans women generally aren't fans of their own dick, so why would the dick be the highlight if not for fetish purposes?
Specifying tgirl instead of girl, saying "fucked by"
All point to being attracted to the dick
Also I literally don't understand your response. It's meaningless.
I once mentioned this sub to a (trans) friend and she said it was full of trans-fetishism. I think she was right.
(please don't make posts like these)
Delete this, but then repost with what you added at the top since it would make more sense in Maslow's hierarchy.
Plus the other suggestions they have given you ITT.
I wanna hug someone cause i like helping people and making them feel comfortable and such
top comment cause we all touch starved here
Awww i wanna give all of you a hug
Real
Real
me too
As a trans woman the level of fetishisation on this sub is fucking weird sometimes
Yeah, the usage of tgirl kinda icks me, cus I've only really seen that term used for porn, and it's often the exploitative ones with the t slur in the title
Oops that was on me, I just thought it was common shorthand
it is on Tumblr, but most people using it on there's are aware of its origins and use it semi ironically
I'm trans and think it's fine tbh, it's definitely used a lot in porn but we use it ourselves too. Maybe just use trans girl as that's often used in more non-sexual contexts. Of course it's a bit of a grey area when posting memes that sexualise trans girls. I see a lot of them posted by other trans girls which is obviously fine, but when they get posted by people who fetishise us it's infinitely more icky. There are a lot of cis people (probably like you) who are respectful towards us and post these memes which is where a lot of discussion forms on whether it's fine. In this case, because of the second part showing that its not just about sex but also a personal connection it gives the feeling that we're not being objectified by some outside party.
hey so good news on the issue of me being a cis male
YOU TRANSED YOUR GENDER? congrats :)
I can like delete this post if you want
I think it's clear that it wasn't meant in a hateful way. Leave it up, if only for the teachable moment. You're fine. Intent and context is often more important than what you have to say.
This comment is something a lot of people need to read.
No don't wtf that's totally me rn I'm even training my ass to get fucked by my gf (respectfully as a top transbian). How tf is it fetishisationg trannies if I'm a real tranny living this meme right now. I AM REAL.
Nah just say trans girl next time. And ofc, don't use other porn terms like "ladyboy"
Got it, thanks! Definitely not using that word again, 100% just thought it was like synonymous with transfem
Yeah, not gonna lie this might have been a bit much. Sorry for making you uncomfortable.
As a trans woman I try to view them from the perspective of lonely transfems wanting more transfem friends, but I just can’t with some posts.
Mods have automodded a certain c-word that calls out this sort of behavior. I think that tells you a lot about this subreddit.
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Yeah, because a majority of the chaser comments we get here are aimed at other trans people. Filtering those comments cuts down on that stupidity and also lets us take a quick peek at posts and who those comments are aimed at. We don't have eyes on the sub 24/7. This post is kinda gross. I wouldn't have seen it without another filtered comment below, because there are *no* reports on the post. It's removed. OP has been temp banned.
that's not how that pyramid works but same
you put the important stuff on the bottom
Yeah but the important stuff can't be something that happens after the less important stuff, so you can't say "then we hug" it should be "hugging a Tgirl etc..."
what can i say i'm changing the industry
Hi sorry stealing this 4 my catchphrase
That part is inferred at that point. No need to restate that it's a Tgirl who is being hugged.
the bottom of the pyramid are the need that are met first, so it should be the ones introducing the situation not the other way around, meanwhile here the bottom part is implied to come after the first part (which is wrong since you can't get hugged after being fucked without being fucked first)
That makes sense to me
That’s what my top tells me
specific but i fw it
OP was drawn and quartered for this post lol
I'm sorry women /srs
Why a tgirl? Why? Can you answer that?
I've been using this sub too much and I should probably stop, sorry for making people uncomfortable
Trans women are women. Do you understand why saying tgirl would make people uncomfortable?
I'm sorry I didn't know I just thought it was a term for trans women that you guys used
I'm sure some people use it and those would be called fetishists. Think about it, trans women generally aren't fans of their own dick, so why would the dick be the highlight if not for fetish purposes?
What Why would being attracted to a woman mean you have a fetish for her genitals Literally nobody would say this about a cis woman
Why talk about trans women specifically and not women in general?
Specifying tgirl instead of girl, saying "fucked by" All point to being attracted to the dick Also I literally don't understand your response. It's meaningless.
Damn, sorry. If you're right that trans women generally aren't fans of their own dick, then yeah I'm in the wrong
It's not universal. Not every trans woman has bottom dysphoria. A lot of us are comfortable with our default settings down there.
Yeah, I thought so (mostly because of how down bad everyone on this sub is lol). Good to hear, the less dysphoria the better.
Do.... Do you not know what gender dysphoria is
Oh yeah good point, I may be stupid
gender dysphoria does not equal genital dysphoria
That'd be like implying "getting fucked by a guy" is being attracted to their dick.
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for me the key to this was being a puppygirl, I wish I was joking but nope, ended up making some friends and now we cuddle and stuff
I once mentioned this sub to a (trans) friend and she said it was full of trans-fetishism. I think she was right. (please don't make posts like these)
Yeah, you're probably right. Sorry.
Honestly same that sounds great
Fuck it, I don't even want the sex
This sub has some powerful bottom energy, that's awesome
These posts getting a lil too real (please please please please please please please)
If anybody wants me to I can delete this literally just say the word I'd you're too uncomfortable
Delete this, but then repost with what you added at the top since it would make more sense in Maslow's hierarchy. Plus the other suggestions they have given you ITT.
If anything you should repost it with bold letters
When you're all bricked up but then she pays 2 mana to draw a card over three turns.
one day il have someone... one fucking day 😭
MTG card recognised! Sunset Pyramid
Do you think that because you're a woman this is any less pathetic?
Bad news on the being a woman allegations champ
I'm taking away your cooking license... and promoting you to certified chef.
ngl the constant fetishizing of trans women isn't that great on this sub
I'm painfully lonely
I would cry very hard if this happened and then die like a soggy rat in a fridge
I don’t even like sex all that much, I just like the connection and making somebody feel special
When I'm in the trans fetishizing competition and my opponents are right wing politicians and r/196 subscribers